Midwife by nature - Crystal Esau

Midwife by nature - Crystal Esau My life as a midwife is about being an ordinary woman, who witnesses everyday miracles💜

Meet baby Safoora💜. Born on 18 September.Ghaironesa and Imtiaaz's 3rd baby.There was a 10 year gap between this pregnanc...
07/12/2025

Meet baby Safoora💜. Born on 18 September.
Ghaironesa and Imtiaaz's 3rd baby.

There was a 10 year gap between this pregnancy and the last one.
While your body remembers,... each pregnancy is unique, with symptoms and experiences varying due to hormones, baby's position, and your changing circumstances.
They had 2 previous normal births at a birthing centre and this would be the first water birth.
Ghaironesa was extremely happy that the birthing home was so close to their home, and said in one message: "That place was meant for me" 😁
The pregnancy journey was very relaxing. She had a few questions every now and then, which was to be expected because after 10 years it probably feels like it's your first pregnancy again.

On the evening of the 17th, Ghaironesa sent a message. She'd been feeling contractions throughout the day and started timing it. Contractions were about 5-6min apart, so I advised her to come for a check, since it was the 3rd baby and things might progress faster.
They came and just before 10pm. It was early labour, so they went back home.
Then 4 hours later, contractions frequency were around 3min and when her husband sent a voice note, I could hear her in the background, breathing through a contraction. It was definitely active labour.
They arrived 10min later, I started preparing the birth pool. On arrival at 2:45 she was 5cm dilated. She was sitting so calmly on the bed, her husband lovingly supporting her, listening to her playlist.
Shortly after, she got into the pool. Contractions intensified rapidly and 30min later, she had the urge to push. Baby Safoora was born at 3:24am. Such a beautiful, calm birth☺️.
Every birth is a unique journey. This birth won't be the same as your last, it won't be like your mother's or your sister's or your friend's. It will be unique to you and your baby.

"Birthing is the most profound initiation to spirituality a woman can have."
-Robin Lim

02/12/2025

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Thanks for sharing Kayla 💜Jeremy Esau Lindie Swart
01/12/2025

Thanks for sharing Kayla 💜
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Meet baby LisaKhanya💜. Born on 15 September via C/section. Alison and Henry's firstborn.Henry reached out to us when the...
30/11/2025

Meet baby LisaKhanya💜. Born on 15 September via C/section. Alison and Henry's firstborn.
Henry reached out to us when they were exploring their birth options and were very interested in doing a natural birth.
And so our journey started 😊

They are both very calm souls and I enjoyed our visits so much. And we were all looking forward to the birth of their princess ☺️

When labor started on the morning of the 11th, we had no idea what a long, exhausting time we were in for.
Contractions were coming every 6-10min. Later that afternoon they came for a check and it was very early labour, so they returned home. Henry kept me updated and Alison was able to rest and take naps in between.
This pattern continued throughout the next 2 days. Contractions continued, but very irregular. We did checks once a day and they also had a scan on the 13th. Mom and baby were doing very well, and contractions were building slowly, very normal for first time mom.
Then, just before 11pm on the evening of the 13th, the water released. Clear fluid. I had hoped that, after that, the contractions would pick up and labour would progress. But it only became more frequent after about 10 hours.
“There is no place for ideology in birthing. Each birth has its own story and we must respond to what the baby tells us.” - Spinning Babies.com

At 12pm on the 14th I checked the cx and it was 4cm dilated. They were walking outside in the garden, around the house, up and down the stairs and 4 hours later she was in active labour, 5cm dilated.
They were both very tired, but kept on moving. Henry was such a great support during this time. He would follow Alison everywhere - rubbed her back, doing hip squeezes, motivated her, reminded her how good she was doing. He was just amazing!
"When a man is truly ‘present’ for the birth of his child and allows himself to be touched by the mystery unfolding before his eyes, he will have an unquestionable experience that can catapult him into the next phase of his development as a mature human being. His encounter with the power of birth…can connect him to his partner and his child in ways that sustain him for the rest of his life.” - John Franklin
She progressed to 8cm, and at 10pm we made the decision to transfer to hospital. She was exhausted, her body was tired, and surges slowed down, almost stopped completely. I contacted the OB on call, and we calmly moved to Karl bremer hospital. I handed them over and left them in the competent hands of the staff on duty.
At 01:50 I received a msg from Henry. Dr did another check and since there was no progress in the last 4 hours, they decided it would be best to do the C-section.

And then I received this message from LisaKhanya ☺️:
To my favorite midwife, Auntie Crystal. Sorry you couldn't get to meet me today . My name is LisaKhanya, and I am a very healthy baby 🐣. Mom and dad say they would come to you just to check if I'm doing ok and get a chance to listen to my heartbeat 🥰. I was born shortly after you dropped off at 02:16am . Thank you for looking after me and reassuring my parents.

26/11/2025

2025...What a year this has been...
Eternally thankful to everyone who has played a part... big or small...along the way.

A total of 68 clients booked their births with Midwife by Nature.
Of the 68, 9 clients risked out and were referred for higher care...8 during antenatal stage and 1 client during latent (early) labor. They were referred to public hospitals based on their area of residence (Karl bremer, Tygerberg,New Somerset, Groote Schuur and Mitchells Plain District Hospital)

59 Clients labored with me (active labour) of whom 55(93.22%) had normal, vaginal births at our birthing home. 29 Boys & 26 girls

4 Clients were referred to Karl Bremer Hospital during active labour stage (>5cm dilated).
These were non emergent referrals - 3 for slow or non-progressing labor, maternal exhaustion and 1 for prolonged 2nd stage (pushing stage)
1 newborn was referred to hospital for low apgar and low sats. Happy to report that she's doing very well😊!!

Thank you to our public hospitals and staff for your support, taking over the care of our clients, and the exceptional care you provide!!

Most important, we thank God for all the blessings. Thank you for Your goodness, love and protection. For using me to do this work here on earth.

25/11/2025

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Still have to do antenatal and postnatal visits...but I'm ready for the festive season 😄

Thank you for this review Lindzay Fransman 💜🙂
25/11/2025

Thank you for this review Lindzay Fransman 💜🙂

Had our last planned birth for 2025 this morning ☺️. Healthy baby boy, born with a true knot in the umbilical cord(2nd t...
24/11/2025

Had our last planned birth for 2025 this morning ☺️. Healthy baby boy, born with a true knot in the umbilical cord(2nd true knot this year)...and look at all that vernix at 39w+2d 💜

Congratulations to first time parents, Linda & partner, on the birth of their handsome baby boy 💜
24/11/2025

Congratulations to first time parents, Linda & partner, on the birth of their handsome baby boy 💜

Congratulations to Christine & Eldon, on the birth of their beautiful baby girl 💜. Their 2nd birth with Midwife by Natur...
22/11/2025

Congratulations to Christine & Eldon, on the birth of their beautiful baby girl 💜. Their 2nd birth with Midwife by Nature 🥰

Congratulations to Falon & Dean, on the birth of their handsome baby boy💜
22/11/2025

Congratulations to Falon & Dean, on the birth of their handsome baby boy💜

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