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Inner Minds Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me. - Carol Burnett Inner Minds is a Counselling/Coaching/Mediation Therapy Practice

12/11/2025

๐—ก๐—˜๐—ช ๐—•๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—š ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—ฆ๐—ง - No More Resolutions, Just Real Change

As the year starts to wind down, so many of us begin thinking about next yearโ€™s goals. The classic โ€œnew year, new meโ€ energy kicks in, and we start making resolutions to do better, eat better, live better.

But before you rush into another round of resolutions, take a step back and reflect for a moment.
How did last yearโ€™s resolution go?
What routines or habits did you slip back intoโ€ฆ again?
..๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ : https://nadiathonnard.com/index.php/2025/11/12/no-more-resolutions-just-real-change/

Whether youโ€™re new to the Behavioural Blueprint model and want to discover how it can help you, or youโ€™ve worked with me before and feel ready for a refresher, now is the perfect time to reconnect.
Letโ€™s explore your unique Blueprint together and set you up for a year of genuine, lasting change.

๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป โ€” letโ€™s make this next year the one where you become the change.

13/10/2025

We donโ€™t argue over what is. We argue over how we see it.
Thatโ€™s why awareness and a REALity Check are key in mediation. When each person can recognise their own perception as just one version of reality, resolution becomes possible.
Conflict shifts the moment perception does.

20/09/2025

Why are so many young people feeling lost today?

Itโ€™s not about parents failing. Parenting is hard โ€” and when things get tough, control often feels like the only option.

But hereโ€™s the truth: every parent has the capacity to lead.
Leadership in parenting isnโ€™t about being perfect or naturally gifted โ€” itโ€™s about tapping into the leader already inside you.

Real leadership means:
๐Ÿ”น Guiding with clarity
๐Ÿ”น Modeling responsibility
๐Ÿ”น Building strong connections

When parents step into this kind of leadership, kids feel safer, more confident, and more capable of leading themselves.

Ready to tap into the leader within? Iโ€™ll be sharing practical ways to do it through the lens of my Behavioural Blueprint Model.

16/08/2025

When you change your perception, you change your past, present & future.

Your triggers donโ€™t have to control you. With my Behavioural Blueprint Model, you can spot whatโ€™s really happening in the moment, shift from reaction to choice, and start building the relationships and life you actually want.

Curious how this could work for you? Letโ€™s connect โ€” Iโ€™d love to show you how one simple shift can change everything.

06/08/2025

Whatever happens in your life โ€” whether it's love, conflict, disconnection, or growth โ€” remember this:

You are 100% responsible for the relationships you create.

Not 50/50. Not when the other person behaves. Not when things are easy.

Every relationship youโ€™re in โ€” with a partner, child, colleague, co-parent โ€” is a reflection of the choices you make:
๐Ÿ”น What you say
๐Ÿ”น What you accept
๐Ÿ”น What you repeat
๐Ÿ”น What you allow
๐Ÿ”น How you respond

When you own your part fully, you stop waiting for others to change. You step into your power.

Want better relationships? Start by changing the way you show up in them.

If youโ€™re navigating challenges in your personal or professional relationships โ€” including separation, co-parenting, or emotional conflict โ€” I can help.
Through my integrative approach combining Choice Theory, mediation, and emotional wellness, I support individuals and families to reset, reconnect, and relate in healthier ways.

Connect with me for more info.

24/07/2025

Itโ€™s a simple question โ€” but it puts you back in the driverโ€™s seat.

We often wait for the day to "go well" or for others to behave a certain way. But what if you chose the mood, the focus, the small joy, or the boundary that could make today feel better?

A good day doesnโ€™t just happen โ€” itโ€™s shaped by the choices we make.

So, whatโ€™s one thing you can do today to make it a little lighter, calmer, or more meaningful?

21/07/2025

Helping families navigate conflict with compassion and expertise. Offering Mediation, Parenting Plans, Parenting Coordination, and Voice of the Child services face to face and online nationwide.
Let's work together to find solutions that work for everyone.

05/07/2025

๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†'๐˜€ ๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ธ:
What story am I telling myself about this situation, and is it helping me move forward?
We are master storytellers - especially when it comes to our own lives. But here's the thing: not all stories serve us.
That narrative running through your head right now? The one about why things happened, what it means about you, or where you're headed?
Pause. Question it.

Is this story empowering you or paralysing you?
Does it open possibilities or close doors?
Are you the hero of your story or the victim?

We are the editor of our own narrative. We can choose stories that move us forward instead of keeping us stuck.
Your story matters. Make sure it's one worth living.

Ready to rewrite the stories that aren't serving you? Let's explore what's possible when you take back the pen.
๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—บ๐—ฒ to start your journey with Choice Coaching.

30/06/2025

"Imagine reading a book with no way to turn back the pagesโ€ฆ
How carefully would you read it?"

Your life is the same. Every choice, every reaction, every chapter โ€” written in real-time.

Thatโ€™s where your Behavioural Blueprint comes in.
It helps you understand the why behind your patterns, the needs driving your choices, and the power you have to write and turn the page with intention.

Ready to stop repeating chapters and start living by design, not default?
Letโ€™s work together. Connect with me to begin exploring your Behavioural Blueprint.

17/06/2025

"All we can give another person is information." โ€“ Dr. William Glasser
In mediation, we donโ€™t control, convince, or coerce.
We share information.
We listen.
We create space for better choices.
Thatโ€™s how real change begins.

10/06/2025

Peaceful co-parenting starts with one choice:
to do whatโ€™s best for your child โ€” not your anger.

โ€” Mediation Cape Town | Where Clarity Meets Choice

03/06/2025

Co-Parenting Is Not About Being Friends โ€” Itโ€™s About Showing Up 100% for the Child Co-parenting often gets confused with โ€œparenting togetherโ€ or โ€œgetting along.โ€ Many peopleโ€ฆ

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