Strongest Story

Strongest Story Helping women get unstuck. Living your Strongest Story presents a remarkable concept that will motivate you to live a focused & significant story.

We provide women with the tools they need to actually change their life path; by discovering what makes them tick, and how to turn that into a fulfilling and sustainable lifestyle. As you intentionally write a stronger story with your life, you’ll realize your full potential and find a deep sense of fulfilment. Deborah Kirsten and Jacqui Mol team up as a dynamic blend of their varied expertise and similar experience, to take you through this practical process of creating clarity and direction for your life. They will share many of their personal experiences in this charismatic presentation and create the space for you to explore your own experiences in a vibrant journal. Designed as an interactive and reflective short course, it will stimulate you to more clearly define:
• Your life chapter and how to embrace the limitations or possibilities.
• Your purpose and what you are most passionate about.
• Your different life roles and how to simplify and maximize them.
• Your strengths and how to use them more effectively. As you own your story and find the courage to be more intentional, you will start to make a meaningful contribution to the stories of those around you and end up Living your Strongest Story!

✨ 𝐉𝐮𝐦𝐩 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐉𝐎𝐘 — 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐅𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐚𝐲! ✨You made it through another week - and not just any week - but a loooong, and pretty toug...
14/11/2025

✨ 𝐉𝐮𝐦𝐩 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐉𝐎𝐘 — 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐅𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐚𝐲! ✨

You made it through another week - and not just any week - but a loooong, and pretty tough exam week.
That takes a whole lot of grit and heart. 💛

(Yes - this is for the moms too!😉 - well done for showing again…and again).

So take a little time to celebrate the small wins and pause to notice just how far you’ve come.
Take some time to catch your breath for what’s still ahead.
One more week.
One more chance to show your courage, focus, and strength. You’ve got this!👊🏽👊🏽

And remember…𝕁𝕆𝕐 is isn’t just found at the finish line, if we take the time to notice, it will also show up in the 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐬, the 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐠𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐝, and yes… it’s there 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠.💪🏽

So take a little time this the weekend to rest and recharge.�
𝐍𝐞𝐱𝐭 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧.

11/11/2025

From chocolate cookie taste tests (yummy) to spicy avocado surprises (ha ha ha) – you just have to meet Anna!

There's some serious local love going on here at Outeniqua Superspar ! Highlight of my day was popping in to meet superSPAR’s sassy superstar, Anna – just being her joyful self.🤣

She’s clearly living her Strongest Story spreading smiles, having fun and making ordinary South Africans (like you and me) find joy in the everyday! 😃

Here’s to finding joy where you are and having fun with what you’ve got!🥰

Not every day feels dazzling.�Some days are just… days. 🤨𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐚 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞...
08/11/2025

Not every day feels dazzling.�Some days are just… days. 🤨

𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐚 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐰𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐣𝐨𝐲 - �🎶 singing in the shower, 💃 dancing while the kettle boils, 📝 writing something (even if it’s bad), 🎙️ sending voice notes to say “hey!” that turn into long chats (if you know Debs and I, then you’ll know exactly what we mean).😉

We love what Kurt Vonnegut had to say (he’s famous for his theory that stories have shapes):�“𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐫𝐭, 𝐧𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐫 𝐛𝐚𝐝𝐥𝐲, 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰. 𝐒𝐨 𝐝𝐨 𝐢𝐭. 𝐒𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫. 𝐃𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐨. 𝐓𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬. 𝐖𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐚 𝐩𝐨𝐞𝐦 𝐭𝐨 𝐚 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝, 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐞𝐦. 𝐃𝐨 𝐢𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐚𝐧. 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝. 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠.”

Maybe that’s the real win.�Not fixing the whole day.�Just creating one good moment inside it.😃

What do you think about that?

A friend said to me recently: “I got into my job to build things that help people. I wanted to create impact. But my bos...
29/10/2025

A friend said to me recently: “I got into my job to build things that help people. I wanted to create impact. But my boss just wants me to tick boxes. And honestly - I don’t even enjoy my job anymore. How do I stop myself from being demoralised on a day-to-day basis?”

I think in essence she was asking “how do I have happiness on a day-to-day basis?”

The short answer, quite simply is “you don't.”�
𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙙𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙙𝙖𝙮.

Not in work, not in motherhood, not even in passion projects.

We must remember to make this distinction between joy and happiness (enjoyment). Not the same thing!

Happiness comes when you win the game, when you get an A on your exam, when your day goes 100% according to your plan … until it doesn’t, and then happiness goes away.

I think we've created this unrealistic expectation that every day at work has to be brilliant; every day of your marriage has to be magical ; every interaction with your kids has to be amazing. That’s just an unfair standard to put on any human being or organisation.

You really don’t have to love every single task at work.�You don’t have to feel amazing every day.� 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙘𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙟𝙤𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙮.

At Strongest Story, we believe joy is rooted not in a perfect to-do list or a dream job, but in:�
→ A relationship with God.
→ A deeper sense of purpose.�
→ A narrative you choose to rewrite, even when things feel stuck.

Choose joy anyway.

☀️

Happiest Birthday to my fabulous-superstar-big-sister,Right from the very beginning, you always protected me. That’s suc...
29/10/2025

Happiest Birthday to my fabulous-superstar-big-sister,

Right from the very beginning, you always protected me. That’s such a good big-sister-thing to do!

We played cars together.
We played Barbies together.You cut my Barbie’s hair (I’m still recovering).

I remember wanting to dress up like you all the time, but you mostly didn't like it… even though Mom really tried.

We fought, of course.
You held me to a high standard - always. You still do!

So many stories.All of them, joy.

Then we grew up.
Got married.
Had kids.
Moved cities - then moved again.
And through it all - every up and down- you never stopped telling me that you adore me. How lovely!

Everyone says we sound the same on the phone and when we laugh - maybe we really do!

You make my world feel a little less wobbly with your wise words (and occasional bossiness 😉)

You’ve got the best jolly-good sense of humour. And I’m just so grateful that we get to share all the important life stuff together.

Better together, always!

𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐬𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 - 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲, 𝐢𝐭’𝐬...
26/10/2025

𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐬𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 - 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲, 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐤.✨

We get tired, routines blur together, and 𝕁𝕆𝕐 can start to feel like something reserved for other seasons — lighter ones, freer ones.

𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡:
𝕁𝕆𝕐 doesn’t just land in our laps.
𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐞 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆.
Every single day.

We choose it in the way we show up, in what we say yes (and no) to,
in the moments we decide to see beauty even when life feels ordinary or messy.

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬, 𝕁𝕆𝕐 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 - around corners we’ve been too comfortable to turn.
It’s in trying something new, saying yes to an adventure we almost said no to, or stepping out of a pattern that’s kept us “safe” but small.
�𝕁𝕆𝕐 𝐨𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 - 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐮𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐯𝐞, 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐛𝐞𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐫.

So as this year draws to a close, maybe the invitation isn’t to push harder or do more… but to look for 𝕁𝕆𝕐 differently. To wake up and choose it — again and again.�
𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝕁𝕆𝕐 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧 — 𝐰𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐚 𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲. 💛

24/10/2025

𝐀𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐬𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 - 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲- 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐤.✨

We get tired, routines blur together, and 𝕁𝕆𝕐 can start to feel like something reserved for other seasons - lighter ones, freer ones.

𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡:
𝕁𝕆𝕐 doesn’t just land in our laps.
𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐞 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆.
Every single day.

We choose it in the way we show up, in what we say yes (and no) to, in the moments we decide to see beauty even when life feels ordinary or messy.

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬, 𝕁𝕆𝕐 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 - around corners we’ve been too comfortable to turn.
It’s in trying something new, saying yes to an adventure we almost said no to, or stepping out of a pattern that’s kept us “safe” but small.
�𝕁𝕆𝕐 𝐨𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 - 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐮𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐯𝐞, 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐛𝐞𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐫.

So as this year draws to a close, maybe the invitation isn’t to push harder or do more… but to look for 𝕁𝕆𝕐 differently. To wake up and choose it - again and again.�
𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝕁𝕆𝕐 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧 - 𝐰𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐚 𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲. 💛

Why not choose a little 𝕁𝕆𝕐 today and begin living your 𝑺𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝑺𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒚 . Visit us @ �https://www.strongeststory.com/

It’s so strange how our brains are wired to spot danger but need training to notice ᒍOY.Those tiny moments of peace or t...
21/10/2025

It’s so strange how our brains are wired to spot danger but need training to notice ᒍOY.

Those tiny moments of peace or thankfulness that slip into the ordinary moments of the day.

They don’t shout. They don’t fix everything.They just remind us that not everything is heavy.

Keep an eye out for them. They’re everywhere.

May this week meet you with peace, and unexpected joy.🌸

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