Help4kids.and.adults South Africa

Help4kids.and.adults South Africa Relationship, trauma therapist, Silva & Reiki healer, IEP, OG, Hypnotherapist, Psychotherapist,PsyD

We are available online via zoom, no child is dumb they need different methodologies.

Living With a Narcissist: The Silent War You Keep Losing Without Realizing ItYou keep fixing what you didn’t break. You ...
12/11/2025

Living With a Narcissist: The Silent War You Keep Losing Without Realizing It

You keep fixing what you didn’t break. You keep apologizing just to keep peace. That’s not love—it’s survival.

Narcissists don’t argue, they rewrite reality. They make you doubt your memory, your worth, your voice. You stop speaking up, not because you’re weak, but because silence feels safer.

Healing begins when you stop waiting for their empathy and start reclaiming your identity. You can’t change a narcissist—but you can rebuild yourself.

Every client I’ve worked with thought they were broken. They weren’t. They were just gaslit into forgetting who they were.

💔 “Kids don’t learn emotions from advice — they copy yours.” Every child mirrors their parent’s nervous system.When you ...
10/11/2025

💔 “Kids don’t learn emotions from advice — they copy yours.” Every child mirrors their parent’s nervous system.

When you scream, their brain learns fear.
When you breathe, their brain learns regulation.
When you name emotions, their brain learns language for healing.

Emotional Intelligence isn’t a luxury — it’s emotional safety.
In today’s 30 Therapies in 30 Days session, I taught parents how to build EQ in their kids through simple therapies like Name It to Tame It, Gratitude Jars, and Calm Corners.

Because when parents heal, kids don’t have to recover. 🌱

— Dr. Arjumand | Psychotherapist | 5000+ Hours in Healing Minds

🎓 Attend the full class today at 6pm (+2GMT) for free and message at +27710175451
💬 Join our next therapy batch: [www.arjumandr.com]

⏰ “You Don’t Need More Time ,You Need Therapy for Time! f you feel guilty for resting… this post is your therapy.It’s no...
07/11/2025

⏰ “You Don’t Need More Time ,You Need Therapy for Time! f you feel guilty for resting… this post is your therapy.It’s not poor planning, it’s emotional overload disguised as bad time management.When time feels heavy, it’s not a clock issue, it’s a control issue.Your mind can’t manage what your emotions haven’t healed. We don’t manage time we manage ourselves within time.
If your to-do lists keep failing, you’re not lazy. You’re overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally overloaded.
In my 30 Therapies in 30 Days program, I teach real psychological tools to reset your inner timing , not just your calendar.
Today’s therapy is about Time Anxiety, and how to build emotional control before task control.
Remember: when your emotions align, your schedule follows. 🕰️💫
Dr. Arjumand | Psychotherapist | 5000+ hours of healing minds

10 best therapies for personal development 1Mirror AffirmationLook into a mirror every morning, say 3 positive sentences...
06/11/2025

10 best therapies for personal development 1
Mirror Affirmation
Look into a mirror every morning, say 3 positive sentences starting with “I am…” (e.g., “I am capable. I am growing. I am enough.”)
Rewires self-image, boosts confidence, and reduces self-doubt.
2
Johari Window Exercise
Make a 2x2 grid: What I know about myself, What others know, What’s hidden, What’s unknown. Ask 2 trusted people how they see you.
Increases self-awareness, emotional maturity, and communication clarity.
3
“I Am” Statements
Write 10 “I am…” statements that define your best self. Repeat them daily.
Builds new identity-based habits and replaces negative self-labels.
4
Daily Self-Review
Before sleeping, answer: “What did I do well today? What could I do better?”
Encourages reflection, personal accountability, and emotional balance.
5
Reframing Negative Self-Talk
Replace every “I can’t” with “I’m learning to…” or “I’ll try differently.”
Reduces internal criticism, increases resilience, and supports emotional growth.
6
Values Clarification Exercise
Write your top 5 life values (e.g., honesty, faith, growth, kindness). Then rate how your daily choices align with them (1–10).
Increases authenticity, integrity, and life satisfaction.
7
Visualization of Ideal Self
Sit quietly and imagine your best future self — behavior, appearance, energy, and calmness.
Builds motivation, creates neural pathways toward desired identity, and reduces fear of change.
8
Self-Compassion Pause
When you make a mistake, pause and say: “This is a moment of learning, not failure.”
Reduces perfectionism and emotional reactivity; increases emotional intelligence.
9
Growth Mindset Practice
Whenever you feel stuck, reframe with: “I can’t do this yet.”
Promotes flexibility, persistence, and curiosity.
10
Gratitude for Self
Write one thing you appreciate about yourself daily (e.g., “I handled stress better today.”)
Strengthens self-acceptance, rewires the brain for positivity, and boosts serotonin levels.

In just 30 days, I’m teaching you 30 real-life therapies — the same ones that have helped my clients overcome anxiety, f...
31/10/2025

In just 30 days, I’m teaching you 30 real-life therapies — the same ones that have helped my clients overcome anxiety, fear, and procrastination.
Each day: 30 minutes, one therapy, and 10 powerful questions to redefine your mindset.
That’s 300 life-defining questions in 30 days — for just $100.
And guess what? You’ll also get a certificate and lifetime access to my private growth group.
Registration closes 2nd November, and we start 3rd November.
Are you ready to finally learn how to heal yourself?
DM me

If you could learn one skill that changes how you think, feel, and react — would you spend 30 days on it?Healing is a sk...
29/10/2025

If you could learn one skill that changes how you think, feel, and react — would you spend 30 days on it?
Healing is a skill. Let’s master it together this November 🌿
📅 30 Therapies
📜 Certificate
💬 Group support
💡 Learn from a Psychotherapist

Have you ever wished you could fix your anxiety, your overthinking, or your stress — without waiting for anyone else to ...
28/10/2025

Have you ever wished you could fix your anxiety, your overthinking, or your stress — without waiting for anyone else to help?
From next Monday, I’m launching something that will teach you how to heal yourself — for life.
Would you like to learn what therapists actually do to calm the mind?
Comment “READY” if you want to know more 💬








27/10/2025

Do you sometimes feel like you're living with a stranger, even in a marriage? Discover why many South Asian women feel e...
20/10/2025

Do you sometimes feel like you're living with a stranger, even in a marriage? Discover why many South Asian women feel emotionally isolated and learn how therapy can pave the path to reconnection. Read more: https://wix.to/zX8wzKz

💬 Are you interested in fostering better understanding within South Asian family dynamics? Join me, Dr. Arjumand Raza, a...
20/10/2025

💬 Are you interested in fostering better understanding within South Asian family dynamics? Join me, Dr. Arjumand Raza, as we delve into therapeutic approaches designed specifically for our communities. 🥰 Together, we can empower each other and enhance mental well-being. Check out my insights at [www.arjumandr.com](https://wix.to/lIKSQto). Let's start a conversation!

Relationships are a journey, not a destination, and challenges are a part of growth. 🌱 Online couples therapy offers a c...
20/10/2025

Relationships are a journey, not a destination, and challenges are a part of growth. 🌱 Online couples therapy offers a compassionate, convenient, and culturally sensitive environment for you and your partner to reconnect and thrive. 🌟 From improving communication to rebuilding trust, take the first step towards strengthening your bond, all from the comfort of your home. Learn more and begin your path to healing today: https://wix.to/kCGXXhe 💕

Relationships can be like gardens. They need care, attention, and sometimes a little extra help to bloom. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure about how to move forward with your partner, you’re not alone. Many couples face challenges that feel overwhelming. That’s where couples therapy online ...

Relationships can thrive with a little help! Discover how online couples therapy can provide a safe space to explore fee...
20/10/2025

Relationships can thrive with a little help! Discover how online couples therapy can provide a safe space to explore feelings and rebuild connection. Are you ready to cultivate a healthier relationship? Read more here: https://wix.to/SKMlHr5

Relationships can be like gardens. They need care, attention, and sometimes a little extra help to bloom. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure about how to move forward with your partner, you’re not alone. Many couples face challenges that feel overwhelming. That’s where couples therapy online ...

Address

Johannesburg

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Help4kids.and.adults South Africa posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Practice

Send a message to Help4kids.and.adults South Africa:

Share

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on LinkedIn
Share on Pinterest Share on Reddit Share via Email
Share on WhatsApp Share on Instagram Share on Telegram

Category