05/11/2025
I’ve spent years teaching people how to find their voice.
But I only started using mine when I realised how silence had shaped me too.
As a brown psychologist, I know what it means to come from a culture that praises humility, but mistakes suppression for strength.
We don’t grow up learning to speak, we grow up learning to adjust, to accommodate, to avoid. So even when we have the degrees, the vocabulary, the platform, finding your voice still takes courage.
That’s what the Riky Rick project reminded me of. That language heals when it’s honest, when it sounds like home. When it’s not dressed up to be palatable, but spoken in a way that our communities can feel.
My work has never just been about therapy,
it’s been about translation. Turning what we were taught to hide into something we can finally name 🤎
What part of your voice are you still reclaiming? 💭
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