African Alchemy

13/11/2025

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13/11/2025

07/11/2025

No matter the medicinal virtues of being a true friend or sustaining a long close relationship with another, the ultimate touchstone of friendship is not improvement, neither of the other nor of the self, the ultimate touchstone is witness, the privilege of having been seen by someone and the equal privilege of being granted the sight of the essence of another, to have walked with them and to have believed in them, and sometimes just to have accompanied them for however brief a span, on a journey impossible to accomplish alone. ~David Whyte

07/11/2025

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02/11/2025

Naomi Wolf was 28 when she wrote The Beauty Myth, a book that challenged everything
women were taught to believe about beauty, success, and control. Published in 1990, it argued
that just as women had gained power through education and work, new forms of pressure had
replaced the old chains.
The world told women they were freer than ever but the mirror told another story. Dieting,
cosmetic surgery, and advertising had created what Wolf called a “cultural conspiracy” that kept
women focused on their bodies instead of their potential.
Her words landed like an earthquake. “A culture fixated on female thinness,” she wrote, “is not
an obsession with beauty, it is an obsession with obedience.” That line became a rallying cry for
a generation of women who realized their exhaustion was not personal failure but systemic
design.
Wolf connected the beauty industry to politics, showing how perfection sold as empowerment
was actually control disguised as self-improvement. Critics attacked her. Feminists debated her.
Millions read her anyway.
She went on to write about power, sexuality, and freedom in a voice that combined intellect with
urgency. Whether people agreed with her or not, she forced the world to confront how cultural
ideals were shaping women’s lives and how rebellion could begin with awareness.
Naomi Wolf’s work reminded readers that the most dangerous form of control is the one that
feels like choice. Her words still echo across decades of advertising and social media, warning
that beauty standards are not admiration they are obedience training.
Her story deserves to be told again.

02/11/2025