21/11/2025
An abscess can feel frightening when you first see it on your child. They often appear suddenly, look painful, and can grow or spread quickly if not treated early. In children, abscesses commonly show up in the neck, armpits, groin, or after an infected insect bite — and they can make little ones feel quite miserable.
When an abscess becomes big, very tender, or your child starts developing a fever, it may need to be drained. But every child and every abscess is different, which is why I always encourage parents to check in with their paediatrician as soon as possible. Your paediatrician will examine it, guide you gently through what’s happening and decide whether drainage is the safest option.
Drainage is a small procedure, but it brings big relief. Children often feel so much better once the pressure is released and the infection can heal properly.
If you notice:
• Swelling that keeps increasing
• Redness spreading outward
• A painful, warm lump
• Fever
• Trouble swallowing or turning the neck or
• You’re simply unsure and worried
Please, have your little one assessed. Abscesses don’t always settle on their own, and early care helps prevent complications — and gives your child comfort much sooner.
My goal is always gentle, safe treatment and making sure every child feels cared for, supported, and protected throughout their healing journey.