Tasneem Abrahams Occupational Therapist

Tasneem Abrahams Occupational Therapist Teen/Adult ADHD & Executive Functioning Therapist/Coach. Virtual/In-person/ home sessions available

16/11/2025

This is very relatable to many of my clients. But for them, saying outright no immediately is not easy. Scripting is however is a very effective strategy to eliminate mental load and slow down the mind in these moments. Sometimes the comments had a great rule and scripting suggestion:
If it's within the week:
"At such short notice I can't commit to that"
If it's more than a week away:
"Let me check my schedule and let you know"

15/11/2025
09/11/2025

Recently, a professional wrote that presuming competence is dangerous because it leads us to overlook vulnerability. That by presuming competence, we fail to protect, fail to offer help, fail to teach and assume people already know skills they have not yet learned. The professional’s stance confuses competence with current performance and support with correction or training.

This is not presuming competence. This is neglect.

Presuming competence is not an instructional strategy nor a belief about skill level. Presuming competence doesn’t mean assuming the person already has every skill but not demanding of someone to prove their right to access before we are willing to help them learn.

To presume competence is to recognise that a person’s understanding, agency, emotional depth and capacity for meaning-making exist regardless of whether they can demonstrate those things in neuronormative ways.
We do not treat a person as less intelligent because they communicate, learn or express differently.
We should assume cognitive presence, even when expression is delayed, non-linear or happens through non-speech communication.
We must provide access, support, scaffolding and alternative communication methods without requiring someone to prove they deserve them.

Presuming competence is an ethical stance that does not reduce someone to what is observable, nor treat one's humanity as being contingent on performance.

Moreso, vulnerability and competence are not opposites... A person can be deeply vulnerable and competent at the same time. Presuming competence allows us to support that vulnerability with dignity, instead of controlling it through fear of what might happen if we get it wrong.

Bottom line is that we don’t presume finished ability. We presume capacity, presence and potential and we support the person in accessing and expressing it.

3 days to go!Join us on Saturday 18 October to hear Adv. Christa Landsberg talk about GBV, financial abuse and it's impa...
15/10/2025

3 days to go!
Join us on Saturday 18 October to hear Adv. Christa Landsberg talk about GBV, financial abuse and it's impact on the vulnerablem

Adv. Christa is an experienced legal professional based in Nelspruit, Mpumalanga. With a solid grounding in family law, sexual offences, and gender-based violence cases, she supports survivors through courtroom representation, legal consultation, and advocacy.

In her role as part of the Hope & Healing GBV initiative, Adv. Landsbeg offers expert guidance on survivor rights, legal recourse options, and court procedures - ensuring that participants understand the legal steps available to them and receive empathetic, informed counsel.

Her legal expertise, commitment to justice, and sensitivity to trauma-informed care offer hope through clarity and support for those navigating GBV-related legal challenges.

Register today and earn CPD points.
Bit.ly/hope-healing-online or visit the link in bio

25/09/2025
🌟 New Live Webinar Alert! 🌟💡 Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviours – when skin picking and hair pulling becomes a disorder🗓...
08/09/2025

🌟 New Live Webinar Alert! 🌟

💡 Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviours – when skin picking and hair pulling becomes a disorder

🗓 Tuesday, 16 Sept 2025
⏰ 18H00 – 19H00
🎤 With Tasneem Abrahams (Occupational Therapist)
📍 Earn 1 CPD Point
💰 R120 (excl. VAT)

👉 Did you know that skin-picking and hair-pulling are not just “bad habits” but can actually be signs of Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviours (BFRBs)?

In this insightful webinar, you’ll learn:
✔️ What BFRBs are & why they develop
✔️ How they impact daily life
✔️ Practical strategies for professionals, caregivers & individuals

✨ Don’t miss the chance to gain expert knowledge and practical tools to better understand and support those living with these often-hidden disorders.

🔗 Register today and secure your spot! https://www.impactlearning.co.za/body-focussed-repetitive-behaviours-when-skin-picking-and-hair-pulling-becomes-a-disorder/

27/07/2025

My brain is low.

I really appreciate everyone who is helping make space for the new way.

Em

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7 Zircon Street
Jukskei Park

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Monday 09:30 - 12:00
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Tuesday 09:30 - 12:30
14:00 - 17:30
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Thursday 09:30 - 12:30
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