Imago Therapy

09/10/2022

07/11/2020

It is often in the rocky stretch of self-discovery that a couple arrives at my door. Questions and doubts of incompatibility can transform into a connection when two people choose to see and hear with new ears and look with eyes that are soft and interested.
To book a session send me an email
Info@kirstenwatkins.co.za

20/10/2020

Couples often arrive at a place in their marriage where they believe that they are incompatible. Incompatible means so different that they are unable to live together harmoniously.
What if you could embrace difference and grow. What if you could embrace difference and heal.
Imago therapy can help you turn these differences into your own growth and your partner’s healing.
Contact me to start this journey
Www.kirstenwatkins.co.za

01/10/2020

Contact me to book a session. Learn to listen, reconnect and weather the storms.

01/10/2020

Contact me to book a session and reconnect again. Learning to listen and how to talk will help you weather the storm

17/10/2019

Choose to love. Even on the days you wake up and don’t feel so in love anymore. love anyway. When you don’t feel like making your partner that cup of coffee, make your marriage and choose to love. When you don’t feel like forgiving them for unkind words said, make your marriage and choose to love. Vows are: in good times AND bad, implying there will be bad times. Make your marriage every day, by choosing to love.

11/10/2019

Couples Workshop
14 & 15 December
Contact Kirsten 082 898 0069

01/10/2019

One of the hidden secrets of love is that it attracts two totally different people together. We have saying such as “opposites attract” and “you complete me” yet very often it is the difference in the other that push as apart. Irreconcilable differences is actually a valid ground for divorce in court. In imago theory we believe that these differences aren’t there to be solved but the tension it creates is something that should promote growth. Become inquisitive about your partner’s differentness, let it become something you want to understand and nurture instead of something you need to change.

17/09/2019

I find myself often telling couples to become soft again. To find a place inside their hurt, anger, resentment (and all the other painful places) that they can magnify with the biggest possible magnifying glass. It is the softness that your partner can see in your eyes that makes them feel safe and feel connected. Inside the chaos of those painful feelings is someone that needs tenderness and understanding. Inside the chaos of your own painful feelings is someone that needs tenderness and understanding. Just start by becoming soft again. Soft with your tone, your touch, your understanding, your words.