Absolute Care

14/12/2025

14/12/2025

ADORABLE little boy who is sadly homeless - he SO deserves so much better! Please give Marsh a forever home?

14/12/2025

Christmas can hurt when your heart is heavy.

Grief doesn’t pause for Christmas. Losing someone, losing stability, or losing the life you thought you’d have can make this season feel impossible.

Emotions can swing - sadness, anger, relief, jealousy. Grief isn’t linear, and it doesn’t always make sense, especially during a time ‘meant’ to feel joyful.

Traditions might feel different this year. Some may hurt, some may comfort. It’s okay to change plans, create new rituals, or step back completely. Remembering someone in small ways - a photo, a memory, a place you shared - can bring gentle connection.

Self-care matters. A shower. A hot drink. Getting outside. Limiting social media if it feels too much. If someone you know is grieving, check in, listen, and offer little acts of support, they mean more than you think.

Grief doesn’t follow a calendar. Whatever you feel this season is valid. Be gentle with yourself.

Alzheimers Society.

12/12/2025

NO words can describe just how adorable this little boy is. Not even the rainy weather can get him down :) TOTALLY best friend material, it is so sad that he is an unclaimed stray. He deserves a great home and forever family.

10/12/2025

SPONSORSHIP TIME IS HERE EARLY THIS MONTH !

🎄✨ BE THEIR SECRET SANTA THIS CHRISTMAS 🐾💛

These little Pekingese at Pekingese Haven are whispering their Christmas wish…
And that miracle is YOU 🫵❤️

More than 70 rescued angels are waiting for someone with a heart of gold to choose them.
For only R300/month, you can become a lifeline for one precious Peke and give them:

🍗 A real Christmas lunch & festive treats
🏡 A warm, safe bed during the holidays
🩹 Critical vet care & medication
🍽️ A full tummy every single day
🎾 Toys, cuddles & pure joy
💫 The gift of HOPE—and a future worth wagging for

Can’t adopt? SPONSOR instead.
Your love can transform a frightened, forgotten Peke into a blossoming little soul… all because you cared.
There is no gift more powerful than saving a life 🎁❤️

Swipe to meet a few of the babies waiting for their Secret Santa 🥹👇

✨ Tap below to change a life today:
💛 Sponsor now:
https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/help-haven~2

Or set up monthly support at
www.pekehaven.co.za

🏦 Bank details:
Pekingese Haven NPC
Standard Bank – The Glen
Acc: 200803190
Branch: 006005
Ref: Your Name + “Sponsor”
Proof → Admin@pkhaven.co.za

Let’s make every tiny tail wag this Christmas 🎅🐶💛
Tag someone with a heart as big as yours! 👇

09/12/2025

👵👴 GIVE GENTLE CARE. 💔
REMINDER: Change a life with just little as R15. Sponsor a hot meal for a homebound senior who is fighting loneliness.
It's easy! SMS 'Meal' to 39055. 📲

09/12/2025

The Power of Tone and Body Language in Dementia

Words may fade, but presence remains. In dementia care, tone of voice and body language often speak louder than any sentence. A gentle tone can calm anxiety, while a warm smile or soft touch can restore dignity and trust.

For those living with dementia, the world can feel confusing and fragmented. Yet caregivers hold a powerful tool: the ability to communicate safety and love without relying on words. A raised eyebrow, a hurried gesture, or a sharp tone can unintentionally create fear. Conversely, slowing down, maintaining eye contact, and speaking with warmth can anchor someone in reassurance.

Tone and body language are not just techniques—they are bridges. They connect caregivers to the emotional world of those whose memories may be fading but whose need for respect and belonging remains strong. Every gesture becomes a message: You are seen. You are valued. You are safe.

As caregivers, we are called to embody patience, compassion, and gentleness. By mastering the silent language of tone and body, we transform care into companionship, and routine into relationship. ❤️

— Florence Mankhanamba

07/12/2025

🌇 Sundowning Explained: Why Evening Confusion Happens and How to Bring Calm

Many people living with dementia experience something called sundowning, a rise in confusion or restlessness during late afternoon or evening. Studies show nearly one in five dementia patients face this pattern, which makes understanding the cause very important for caregivers.

Why Sundowning Happens
• Fatigue builds up throughout the day
• Low lighting reduces visibility which increases confusion
• Changes in internal body clock
• Unmet needs like hunger or discomfort
• Stress from a busy or overstimulating daytime environment

Simple Calming Strategies
• Keep evenings quiet and predictable
• Reduce noise and harsh lighting in the surroundings
• Offer a light snack or warm drink
• Use soft music or gentle activities to soothe
• Give reassurance through touch and simple words
• Maintain a steady sleep routine to reduce nighttime anxiety

Sundowning can be challenging yet a patient approach makes a big difference. Small changes bring comfort and help your loved one feel safe. Every calm evening you create becomes an act of love and dignity.

- Florence Mankhanamba

06/12/2025

www.absolutecare.org.za
We are almost full up but have one or two rooms, single or sharing available for your loved one. Please contact us for more info.

04/12/2025

Great tips to care for a loved one.

02/12/2025

Dementia can be so complicated and it brings so much confusion with it, too.

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