Christa Coetzee Relationship Coach, Sexologist and Psychologist

Christa Coetzee Relationship Coach, Sexologist and Psychologist EQ Coach | Psychologist | Corporate Facilitator | Relationships Coach | Sexologist. She adds value by offering on-line courses, virtual challenges and webinars.

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Christa Coetzee is a practicing Relationship Coach, Sexologist and Psychologist with more than 30 years of experience in assisting and guiding Individuals and Couples to Own their Mental - From The I in ME to The WE in USโ€ฆand Everything in Between. Christa Obtained her Mastersโ€™ degree in Educational Psychology, Pre-graduate in Social Work and furthermore obtained the highest attainable, internationally recognized qualification in Sexology (Accreditation with the EFS/ESSM as Certified Psycho-Sexologist (ECPS). Her Formal Training laid the foundation for Christa to address the needs of her Clients with a Systemic, Holistic and Practical approach. Christa is a firm believer that every individual needs to be understood within the framework of their Unique Psychology, Biology and as a Unique member of their Social Circumstances. Christa is currently in Private Practice in South Africa (Pretoria), but also consults Internationally on On-line Platforms and Often engages in Public Speaking activities regarding Mental Health (Psychological concerns) and Intimate Relationships concerns. Due to the fast-shifting world and the extraordinary emotional, mental, relationship, financial and time challenges globally faced, Christa is taking her knowledge and years of practical experience on line to serve as many people as possible. Her philosophy is to empower people and to provide them with skills that will enable them to practically navigate their own lives. Christa is a Past President of the Southern African Sexual Health Association (SASHA) and had been involved with developing and establishing the organization form short after its inception. Her involvement with SASHA and private practice has exposed and equipped her to work in the field of sexual health on a wide variety of aspects regarding sexual health โ€“ the impact on the individual; in relationships; families and in the society.

14/11/2025

The pre-filming warm-up nobody warns you about ๐Ÿ˜…
Sometimes itโ€™s wayowayowayooo, sometimes itโ€™s tea and deep breaths, either way, the show must go on! ๐ŸŽฌ

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13/11/2025

Iโ€™ve learned over the years that silence isnโ€™t always peace; sometimes itโ€™s disconnection in disguise.

In every team, there are people who show up quietly, get things done, and never complain. We often assume theyโ€™re fine because theyโ€™re not โ€œmaking noise.โ€ But sometimes, those are the very people who are quietly disengaging.

As leaders, our job isnโ€™t just to manage the loud or the visible; itโ€™s to notice the ones whoโ€™ve gone quiet. The truth is, silence speaks too. We just have to listen differently.

How often are you checking in not just on performance, but on people?

โ€œ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ.โ€This season, donโ€™t chase the perfect present โ€” create perfect moments.Let ...
12/11/2025

โ€œ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ.โ€

This season, donโ€™t chase the perfect present โ€” create perfect moments.
Let your time together be the gift, your laughter the wrapping, and your love the true magic that makes it all meaningful.

In a world obsessed with what we give, we often forget how we give โ€” with attention, empathy, and intention. The most memorable gifts arenโ€™t bought; theyโ€™re felt in the quiet moments of being truly seen and understood.

๐Ÿ’ญ ๐‘๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ: ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ง๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐จ๐ง?

โœจ ๐…๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ, ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ง๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ.

12/11/2025

I say it often: connection is my currency. But hereโ€™s the truth: connection starts with validation.
Every person in your team, whether quiet or outspoken, needs to know that their contribution matters.

Disconnection is contagious. When one person pulls away, the whole team feels it.
But connection is contagious, too. When one person feels seen, it lifts everyone else.
Leaders, make time to see your people. Productivity follows presence.

11/11/2025

In every team, youโ€™ll find the dynamic voices, the ones who fill the room and the quieter ones who prefer to listen. Both are vital.

The magic happens when leaders create a space where both personalities connect, collaborate, and learn from each other. Because when every voice feels heard, innovation thrives.
True leadership isnโ€™t about spotlighting one type of personality; itโ€™s about balancing the room so that everyone feels seen and valued.

Who in your team needs to be invited back into the conversation today?

11/11/2025

๐†๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐…๐š๐๐ž. ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ง๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐‹๐š๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฌ.
Every year, many couples feel the pressure to find the perfect gift โ€” the one wrapped just right, the one that says โ€œI care.โ€
But maybe the real magic isnโ€™t in the wrapping paper... itโ€™s in the intention behind it.

This season, try something different:
- Keep the surprise gifts small, and let your time together be the biggest gift.
- Create moments where you truly feel seen, heard, and connected.
- Let joy come not from perfection, but from presence.

๐๐ž๐œ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ โ€” ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒโ€™๐ซ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฅ๐ญ.

Whatโ€™s one meaningful way you plan to connect with your partner this holiday season?
๐Ÿ‘‰ Tag someone youโ€™d love to share this reminder with.


10/11/2025

When someone resigns, itโ€™s rarely sudden. Disconnection happens quietly, weeks, sometimes months before that letter ever lands on your desk. Leaders, by the time someone leaves, itโ€™s often too late to ask what went wrong.

The real work lies in noticing the early signs: the silence, the withdrawal, the loss of spark and reconnecting before itโ€™s too late.

Retention isnโ€™t about perks. Itโ€™s about people feeling valued, trusted, and seen. Connection isnโ€™t a soft skill; itโ€™s a leadership strategy.

10/11/2025

๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ž๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ž๐š๐ง ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ž.
Sometimes, it means someone is silently disengaging.

โ€œQuiet Crackingโ€ is the slow withdrawal happening in many workplaces โ€” when employees go quiet not out of calm, but disconnection.
Itโ€™s easy to missโ€ฆ until trust, morale, and collaboration start to fade.

Leaders who notice these small cracks early can rebuild connection through validation, empathy, and psychological safety before the culture breaks.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Watch the full episode to learn how to spot and prevent quiet cracking in your team.
(Link in comments)

07/11/2025

I often ask leaders this question are your people thriving, or just surviving?
A healthy culture isnโ€™t about free coffee or perks. Itโ€™s about emotional safety. Itโ€™s about trust.

When people feel they can speak up, they engage. When they feel safe, they stay.
Iโ€™ve seen teams transform simply because someone said, โ€œYou belong here.โ€
Thatโ€™s the true power of connection it builds loyalty, not fear.

Yesterdayโ€™s VSAI Summit was nothing short of inspiring! Leaders, entrepreneurs, and visionaries from around the world ca...
06/11/2025

Yesterdayโ€™s VSAI Summit was nothing short of inspiring!

Leaders, entrepreneurs, and visionaries from around the world came together virtually to learn, share, and grow. The energy, the insights, and the connections built during this summit reminded us that growth truly knows no boundaries.

A big thank you to everyone who joined us online and made this event a success, your presence and participation made all the difference! ๐Ÿ™Œ

Hereโ€™s to leveraging knowledge, collaboration, and courage to take your business to the next level.

06/11/2025

One of the most powerful lessons Iโ€™ve learned as a leader you donโ€™t have to fix people to support them. Support looks like listening. It looks like flexibility.

It looks like saying, โ€œTake the time you need.โ€ Iโ€™ve seen teams transform when leaders create safe spaces when care becomes the culture, not the exception. People donโ€™t forget how you made them feel seen and valued. Thatโ€™s what builds loyalty and trust.

๐“๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐›๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ?Itโ€™s not. Exhaustion doesnโ€™t prove your dedication โ€” it limits your potential.True...
05/11/2025

๐“๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐›๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ?
Itโ€™s not. Exhaustion doesnโ€™t prove your dedication โ€” it limits your potential.

True success isnโ€™t about pushing harder; itโ€™s about leading smarter.
Balance, boundaries, and self-awareness are what keep you sustainably unstoppable.

โœจ๐‘ท๐’“๐’Š๐’๐’“๐’Š๐’•๐’Š๐’›๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’˜๐’†๐’๐’-๐’ƒ๐’†๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ โ€” ๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’•๐’†๐’„๐’• ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’…๐’–๐’„๐’•๐’Š๐’—๐’Š๐’•๐’š.
๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’‘๐’๐’”๐’• ๐’‚๐’” ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’“๐’†๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’†๐’“ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’ƒ๐’–๐’“๐’๐’๐’–๐’• ๐’Š๐’” ๐’๐’๐’• ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’…๐’ˆ๐’† ๐’๐’‡ ๐’”๐’–๐’„๐’„๐’†๐’”๐’”.

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Christa Coetzee is a practicing Psychologist and Sexologist that completed her mastersโ€™ degree in Educational Psychology and her pre-graduate studies in Social Work and is an accredited EFS/ESSM Certified Psycho-Sexologist (ECPS). Christa is currently in private practice (since 1997) in Pretoria and often engages in public speaking activities covering sexual health concern topics. Christa has been elected and operational as part of the national board of the Southern African Sexual Health Association and has been involved with the organization form shortly after it conception โ€“ She is a Past President and currently still a member. Her involvement with SASHA and private practice has exposed and equipped her to work in the field of sexual health on a wide variety of aspects regarding sexual health โ€“ the impact on the individual; in relationships; families and in the society. Christa was the Psychologist on the team with three medical doctors developing and running workshops on interviewing skills for Medical Practitioners in the field of sexology. Christa is furthermore recognised and respected by her colleagues as a specialist in working in the field of sexual orientation life style concerns. Christa often contributes to commercial magazines in her professional capacity, covering articles with regards to sexual health.