Lady lilian

Lady lilian Ever grieve something that never actually happened? A future that didn't arrive. A version of yourself you thought you'd be by now. Prayers that went unanswered.

That's the grief we talk about here. The invisible kind. The unnamed kind.

27/01/2026

I disappeared from this page for months.

Not because I had nothing to say, but because I was living what I'm now ready to write about:

The grief of a stalled life.

I'm back not with polished motivation, but with honest conversation about the grief we don't name:

The grief of delayed adulthood.

The grief of unanswered prayers.

The grief of watching your life stand still while everyone else moves forward.

If you've ever felt stuck, unseen, or confused about why life isn't unfolding the way you believed it would—this page is for you now.

Let's stop pretending we're fine and start naming what's really happening.

Are you with me? 🤍

August is here, and if you're anything like me, you might be looking at the last few months and thinking, "Where did the...
01/08/2025

August is here, and if you're anything like me, you might be looking at the last few months and thinking,

"Where did the time go?"

Maybe you've been feeling the weight of burnout or the endless cycle of procrastination.

​I get it.

But here's a thought: it's not too late to hit the reset button.

The past is in the past, and today is a new chance to start fresh.

​As an accountability partner, I believe in the power of small, consistent steps.

I'm here to offer a little extra support to help you move forward—whether it's with daily nudges, managing that overwhelming to-do list, or just having someone to check in with.

​Let's make this month a turning point, together.

What's one word from the picture that you're choosing to be your focus for August?

Let me know in the comments! 👇

Let's be real, staying focused in today's world can feel like an Olympic sport. I've definitely had my moments of starin...
31/07/2025

Let's be real, staying focused in today's world can feel like an Olympic sport. I've definitely had my moments of staring at a screen, feeling overwhelmed, and wondering where the time went. That's why I wanted to share a simple yet incredibly effective "productivity hack" that's been making a real difference for me: the Pomodoro Technique.
It's beautifully straightforward:
Choose a task.
Set a 25-minute timer.
Dive in with absolute focus (no distractions allowed during this time!).
Enjoy a quick 5-minute break.
After four of these cycles, take a longer break (15-30 minutes) to truly recharge.
I've found it genuinely helps keep my mind fresh, trains my brain to really hone in on one thing, and is fantastic for preventing that dreaded burnout. Plus, it breaks down larger projects into bite-sized, less intimidating chunks.
It's a powerful reminder that sometimes, less continuous work but more focused work is the key to getting more done. If you're looking for a way to boost your concentration and feel more accomplished, I highly recommend giving the Pomodoro Technique a shot.
Has anyone else tried this? What was your experience?

30/07/2025

Ever promise to start over every Monday?

You map the perfect plan.
You tell yourself: “This time I’ll stay consistent.”
You stick to it for 2 days—maybe even a week.
Then something slips.
You miss a task. Skip a routine.
And suddenly, the spiral begins:
Habit → Slip → Guilt → Avoid → Restart.
(Over and over again.)

It’s not a motivation problem.
It’s not about being “disciplined enough.”
It’s an accountability loop—a quiet trap where you’re the planner, the executor, the failure, and the judge. All alone.

Burnout makes this loop tighter.
You don’t just break the habit—you blame yourself for breaking it.

But here's what changes things:
A gentle check-in. A message. A witness.
Someone outside the loop who can say:
“It’s okay. Let’s pick it up again tomorrow.”
Not with shame. Not with pressure.
Just with presence.

You don’t always need someone to push you.
Sometimes you just need someone to notice.

💬 Tag someone you trust to hold space for your reset.

And if no one comes to mind—my inbox is open.

30/05/2025

Hey friends! 👋 Have you ever found yourself in a season of waiting?

Whether it's waiting for a dream to manifest, a door to open, or a challenge to pass, waiting can be tough.

But what if I told you that this season can also be a powerful opportunity for growth, reflection, and preparation?

Here are some things I've learned to do during my own waiting seasons:

1️⃣ Practice patience: Waiting can teach us to slow down, trust the timing of our lives, and have faith that everything will work out for our good.

2️⃣ Reflect and learn: Use this time to reflect on your journey, identify areas for improvement, and learn from your experiences.

3️⃣ Focus on self-care: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Engage in activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul.

4️⃣ Pursue new opportunities: Waiting seasons can be a great time to explore new interests, learn new skills, or take on new challenges.

5️⃣ Connect with others: Reach out to friends, family, or a community that can offer support, encouragement, and guidance.

6️⃣ Stay positive and hopeful: Remind yourself that waiting is not a sign of failure, but rather a stepping stone to success. Keep your eyes on the prize and stay focused on your goals!

What do you do during your waiting seasons? 🤔

29/05/2025

I'm embracing the journey of lifelong learning.

Whether it's diving into a new book, exploring a fascinating topic, or gaining insights from someone's experiences, I'm always looking to expand my knowledge and grow as a person.

I'm open to meeting people who can share their wisdom, teach me new skills, or simply inspire me with their stories.

Let's learn, grow, and explore together.

What's something new you're learning or exploring right now?

28/05/2025

Faith is the spark that ignites hope, the anchor that holds us steady, and the light that guides us through life's darkest moments.

It's the trust that everything will work out for our good, even when we can't see the path ahead.

Let's hold onto faith, nurture it, and let it shine bright in our lives.

26/05/2025

Wishing everyone a fantastic week ahead.

May we make progress in all we do, learn from our setbacks, and celebrate our achievements.

May our efforts be fruitful, and may we grow stronger and wiser with each passing day.

Let's strive for excellence and support one another in our journeys.

26/05/2025

Lately, I’ve been searching.
For open doors.
For new paths.
For something that feels like progress.
But everything seems quiet. Still. Almost stuck.

I thought by now things would be different
That I'd have found something… a breakthrough, a sign, a clear next step.
But here I am, trying, hoping, and wondering if I took a wrong turn or if life is just on pause.

It’s hard when you're open to change, ready for more,
but nothing seems to be changing.

Still, deep down, I believe this season isn’t wasted.
Maybe it's shaping me. Maybe it's strengthening me.
Maybe it's preparing me for what’s next.

So I’ll keep walking
even when I don’t know where the road leads.

25/05/2025

Life can get tough, and it's easy to feel like we're losing our way. BUT here's the thing: our struggles don't define us. It's in the darkest moments that we discover our strength, resilience, and faith. Keep pushing forward, even when it feels like everything is against you. Hold on to hope, lean on loved ones, and trust that better days are ahead. You are stronger than you think, and your story isn't over yet.

22/05/2025

Learning something new as an adult can be tough, folks! I mean, we're talking about stepping out of our comfort zones, confronting our own limitations, and sometimes feeling like total beginners again.

BUT here's the thing: it's SO worth it! Every time we challenge ourselves to learn something new, we grow, we adapt, and we become more resilient.

So, to all the adults out there who are brave enough to take on a new challenge, I see you! Keep pushing forward, even when it gets tough (and it will get tough).

You got this!

21/05/2025

Another year passes… and truth be told,
I'm not where I thought I’d be.

I had dreams that by now, certain things would be in place.
A stable job. A home. A clearer path.
Peace that doesn’t waver.
But life has had its own timeline.
One filled with delays, detours, and deep lessons.

Some days it’s hard not to feel behind.
To look around and wonder,
“Will it ever come together for me?”

But even with the questions,
I still have hope.
Hope that one day, things will settle.
That the seeds I’ve planted in tears, faith, and quiet perseverance
Will finally bloom.

Until then, I’ll keep moving, slowly if I have to.
Because stability may not be here yet
But I believe it’s coming.

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