09/04/2026
Becoming a father can bring forth a lot of emotions like pride, joy and excitement but it can also be very overwhelming at the same time. You want to help and support your partner but you are not always sure how?
Here are some basic tips on how to support your partner:
1. Remember that you play a very important role as a partner and father. Be patient with yourself as you learn to adjust to your new normal and take time to look after yourself while you support and help your partner.
2. Get hands on by learning how to change nappies, bath the baby, burp and soothe the baby. Helping with these tasks means the world to a tired mother. It also gives you time to bond with your baby.
3. Communicate by asking your partner what she needs - a glass of water, tea, a shower, a nap - and also communicating what your needs are.
4. Set boundaries by limiting visitors, phone calls and handling messages. This protects your partners space , gives her time to rest and gives you both time to settle in at home.
5. Try to be patient, not to take everything personal and listen without trying to fix. Your partner is going through a lot - she gave birth, postpartum hormones, pain, exhaustion and feeding your baby might get very overwhelming at times. Make her feel loved and heard with calm, steady support.
Always remember - be present, patient and supportive.