10/12/2025
As I move through December, Iโm reminded of something beautiful and painfully true, the Festive Season can feel like an emotional magnifying glass.
If youโre surrounded by love, those feelings may grow warmer. But if youโre feeling lonely, overwhelmed, or unsupported, this season can make everything feel heavier and harder. And if thatโs you right now, I want you to know this:
There is nothing wrong with how you feel.
Youโre not too sensitive.
Youโre not โfailing at Christmas.โ
Youโre simply human, navigating a season that can bring up a lotโmemories, expectations, grief, hopes, and hurts. You deserve gentleness, especially from yourself.
Talking things through can truly help. Entering into therapy isnโt about fixing you, itโs about giving you a safe, calm space to breathe, unpack whatโs weighing on you, and feel supported. You donโt have to carry everything alone.
Reaching out is strength.
You deserve care. You deserve connection. You deserve someone in your corner.
Please take things one moment at a time. YOU matter.
A Few Coping Tips for the Festive Season
Here are some small, practical ways to look after your mental health over the holidays:
1. Set boundaries with your time and energy
You donโt need to attend every event or meet every expectation. Saying โnoโ is an act of self-respect.
2. Stay connected, even in small ways
A short voice note, a walk with someone safe, or reaching out to talk can soften the weight of loneliness.
3. Make space for rest
The festive season can be overstimulating. Give yourself permission to pause, breathe, and take breaks.
4. Honour your emotions
If youโre grieving or struggling, let your feelings exist without judging yourself. Christmas isnโt a test you need to pass.
5. Create small moments of comfort
Light a candle, watch something that soothes you, journal, or make yourself a warm drink. Tiny rituals can ground you.
If you need support, Iโm here
If this season feels heavy and youโd like someone to talk to, please reach out to set and appointment.
Sonica: 081 773 4477
You donโt have to go through this alone.