28/03/2024
Day 32 Devotion-Negative LifeChange from Unforgiveness Part One
WHAT GOD SAYS:
But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love.
2 Peter 1:5-7
Each of us has certain routines in our lives that operate on autopilot. For example, NBA basketball superstar Lebron James before the start of every game, will walk over to the scorer’s table, rub his hands in the chalk, clap his hands together, and then toss the residue of the dust up in the air. Others of us are hardwired to grab a cup of coffee every morning even before our eyelids reach half-mast. Such repetitive behaviors are called habits. Habits can either be good or they can be bad. Usually it is not our good habits that trouble us but the bad ones.
All of us know how hard it is to break a bad habit. At times it feels like trying to hammer a nail into a board with our bare hands. A key to breaking a bad habit is understanding the root source that is causing the behavior. One of the ways we can identify the source is to pay close attention to the changes and behaviors that are occurring in our lives. Take unforgiveness, for instance. When unforgiveness is present in our lives, we develop some unhealthy habits that cause our lives to change in a negative way.
For example, when unforgiveness is present in our hearts, it starts a domino effect. When we don’t forgive the first person, it becomes much easier for us not to forgive the second person, the third person, etc. When this habit is fully in place, we will habitually not forgive anyone for anything.
Unforgiveness also nourishes a fear of being hurt in the future. This forces us to build walls around our hearts to keep anyone else from hurting us more. The higher and thicker the walls become, the less relational we become. Eventually, our habit of stacking those internal bricks will make us a lonely, broken and hurt individual. None of us want our lives to change in this negative way. There’s good news. Every bad habit can be broken—even the ones caused by unforgiveness!
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