08/12/2025
Change Is the Only Constant
Walking through the centre of Cape Town’s CBD, I found myself pausing in front of an old building wrapped in scaffolding.
Dust in the air, walls stripped back to their bones, workers steadily chipping away at what once was.
It struck me how familiar that scene felt how closely it mirrored the quiet renovations happening within my own life.
Sometimes the structures we’ve relied on, the identities we’ve built to keep us safe, the routines that kept us comfortable reach a point where they no longer fit.
They become too small, too outdated, too heavy to carry forward. And life, in its persistent flow, gently or forcefully nudges us toward a revamp of our own.
What we rarely remember is that this process doesn’t pause the rest of the world. People still rush past on their way to meetings. Taxis hoot. Conversations float through the air.
Everyone is navigating their own internal construction site patching cracks, knocking out old walls, reinforcing foundations, or letting more light in where it’s been needed for years.
And just like any renovation, it’s messy. Sometimes frustrating.
Other times unexpectedly enlightening. But beneath all that dust is progress. Real progress.
The key is consistency. Discipline. Persistence. Showing up for your own becoming, even on the days when you feel like nothing is shifting, even on the days you realise that what you are busy changing and revamping has gone skew and you break it down just to start rebuilding again, nothing you do is in vain.
Every interaction fleeting or lasting adds a brick to your future structure.
Every door that closes reroutes you toward a new threshold. Every moment of discomfort is teaching you patience, kindness, compassion, grace.
All of it prepares you for something sturdier, truer, more aligned with who you’re becoming.
Change is uncomfortable, yes. But it is also sacred.
Because in the breaking down, the clearing out, the rebuilding… something softer yet stronger emerge. Something that has been waiting inside you for years, finally stepping forward.