21/11/2025
My feed deserves a purple tile and not just my stories or my temporary profile picture.
Gender based violence in RSA 🇿🇦 has affected all of you - men and women.
You may think it’s someone else’s problem. So did I until I recognised names (yes plural) on the social pages.
I also didn’t think I was a victim until I read the definition of GBV and was shocked at what it all encompassed. Some behaviour becomes acceptable to us as women because it’s just so common.
You may also wonder what declaring GBV a national disaster will do - the cynical saffa in me thinks this too. But without it, no resources will be allocated to addressing this, let alone creating any change.
Yes, this is a doctor’s profile. Its medical. But my job is women’s health. The stories I’ve heard and the things I’ve seen in my 18 years of being a doctor, are beyond traumatising.
So I’ll be vocal. I’ll make you think about the things you let slide. And while we also know it isn’t all men, those who aren’t part of the problem, need to be part of the solution. Period.
Thank you, South Africa for making a change. Thank you for signing a petition. Thank you for going purple.
And thank you for your relentless pursuit of activism with your small team and now, even bigger voice 💜