25/11/2025
You can’t outrun yourself, no matter how many external changes you make.
You can move house, get divorced, quit your job, or change your hair.
But until you face what is happening inside, nothing in your external life truly shifts.
You move country, you’re as unhappy as before
Your new partner, guess what, he still triggers you
Your new boss, well she’s as unreasonable as the old one
Because the pattern follows you until you change the beliefs, wounds, and conditioning you carry.
Your past experiences shape the lens through which you see the world, your relationships, and your confidence in midlife.
Real change comes from inner work, not constant external reinvention.
Doing your work is the work.
