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‎The Power of Decision in Substance Use Recovery‎‎As a Psychotherapist, I witness firsthand the profound impact of decis...
17/06/2025

‎The Power of Decision in Substance Use Recovery

‎As a Psychotherapist, I witness firsthand the profound impact of decision-making in the journey toward recovery from substance abuse. One recurring question I pose to clients struggling with alcohol or drug dependence is: What is your decision about substance use now?

‎Why this question? Because in countless cases, individuals only seek help after developing a tolerance to the substances they use. At this stage, they often experience withdrawal symptoms—hallucinations, tremors, and other distressing effects—when they either haven’t used the substance or have consumed too much. This is a critical phase in addiction where the body requires increasingly larger doses to achieve the same high that smaller amounts once produced.

‎Most clients come to therapy not necessarily because they want to quit, but because they want relief from these unpleasant symptoms. Of course, some genuinely desire to stop using, but many are simply looking for a way to escape the immediate discomfort.

‎My role as a Psychotherapist is to support, not to impose. I can guide, teach, and encourage—but real change only occurs when the individual makes a firm, internal decision to stop. Without a solid commitment, even after medical treatment relieves the symptoms, many clients quickly relapse.

‎When the decision to stop is strong and sincere, my task shifts to reinforcing that choice. I focus on equipping clients with practical tools—how to cope with cravings, resist peer pressure, and understand the health risks of continued substance use. With this knowledge, they’re better prepared to make informed and lasting decisions.

‎For those deeply entrenched in substance use, their decision can influence critical life outcomes: whether they complete their education, secure or maintain employment, build healthy relationships, or live with dignity and purpose.

‎However, even with the best intentions and a strong resolve, life doesn’t pause its challenges. Stressful situations can trigger old patterns and temptations. I remind my clients: the beer will still taste the same; the drug will still offer that familiar escape. But with awareness and the coping strategies gained in therapy, they are better positioned to resist and stay the course toward sobriety.

‎Ultimately, the journey begins—and continues—with one powerful truth: recovery hinges on the strength of their decision.

Depression no longer knows an age limit. Young people are increasingly hooked on alcohol to the point that they develop ...
12/06/2025

Depression no longer knows an age limit. Young people are increasingly hooked on alcohol to the point that they develop serious medical conditions like substance-induced psychosis, liver damage, and kidney failure—yet they still find it hard to stop drinking.

As a psychotherapist, I witness firsthand, on a daily basis, the devastating impact of substance use.

But this doesn't just happen—it starts somewhere. Often, it traces as far back as childhood. Everyone can probably recall at least one classmate who never seemed to care about school. The same pattern appears in our communities, where delinquency is prevalent across all age groups. Many people spend their first coin on alcohol. Personally, I've stopped giving out change to strangers for fear they might use it to buy beer—this has happened more times than I can count.

You may have heard of the term midlife crisis—a phase usually occurring between the ages of 40 and 60, often marked by regret, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, and other mental health struggles. This often stems from unresolved regrets tied to poor decisions made earlier in life.

There's also a concept called psychache—a deep psychological pain where one is stuck in a suicidal state. When someone reaches this level of mental distress, even psychotherapy has limited success in reversing it. Psychache often manifests through substance abuse, which is why some people turn to drugs or alcohol in the first place.

What’s more concerning is the emergence of a younger version of the midlife crisis—known as the quarter-life crisis—where adolescents and young adults display similar patterns of distress, including anxiety, hopelessness, and substance use.

The only way to curb these troubling trends is to intervene at every level of society:

Family: Parents must guide children from a young age, instilling responsibility and emotional resilience.

Community: We need to promote positive activities such as sports and mentorship programs to engage youth meaningfully.

Church: Faith-based organizations play a role in teaching values and principles that discourage irresponsible behavior.

National level: Governments must implement and enforce policies that address substance abuse. This includes regulating drug and alcohol availability and limiting the setup of bars and outlets in vulnerable communities.

The laws exist—but enforcement is weak. Without active implementation, the cycle will continue.


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