28/04/2025
A Blissful Retreat: Nurturing Marriages at KUZIPA
By Pastor Saidi and Mrs. Maureen Chansongo Chishimba
From April 25th to 28th, 2025, KUZIPA played host to a truly magnificent marriage retreat that left couples rejuvenated, enlightened, and yearning for more. As the invited speakers, we, the Chishimbas, were honored to guide participants through six enriching sessions that covered a spectrum of vital topics.
The retreat was a serene setting with love-filled air mingled with the scent of fresh possibilities. Couples gathered eagerly, their faces alight with anticipation, ready to delve into topics such as "Partnership in Marriage", "Making a Difference as a Couple within the Community of Your Influence" and “The exposition of Ephesians 5:21-33.” The retreat's carefully planned program addressed the perfect blend of spiritual and practical aspects of married life.
One of the highlights was an eye-opening exploration of intimacy and s*x within the context of Christian marriage, viewed through the lens of African culture and tradition. This session bridged the gap between age-old practices and modern Christian values, unveiling a treasure trove of wisdom that had long been overlooked. Couples left with a newfound appreciation for their heritage and its harmonious coexistence with their walk with God.
The joy-filled laughter echoing across the grounds as couples engaged in physical workouts together was fantabulous. Partners cheered each other on, discovering new facets of their relationship through sweat and determination. The sight of spouses supporting one another, both literally and figuratively, was truly heartwarming. As they returned to their chalets with aching muscles and beaming smiles, the bonds of matrimony seemed visibly strengthened.
The obstacle course challenges added an element of playful competition to the retreat. Each game was thoughtfully designed to mirror real-life marital hurdles, fostering resilience and teamwork. Couples navigated these challenges hand-in-hand, their shared triumphs a metaphor for overcoming life's obstacles together.
The retreat's atmosphere was electric with positivity. Friendships blossomed between couples as they shared experiences, asked insightful questions, and supported one another's growth. The air buzzed with laughter and animated discussions, creating a vibrant community of learners and lovers.
A particularly memorable event was the "Paint and Chew" session. The serene forest was filled with couples, paintbrushes in one hand and snacks in the other, creating colorful representations of their marriages. The resulting artworks were a kaleidoscope of emotions and experiences, each canvas telling a unique love story. Some couples, more adept at the "chew" than the "paint," provided comic relief with their artistic attempts.
As the four days drew to a close, there was a palpable sense of transformation among the participants. Couples departed with renewed vigor, their marriages fortified by shared experiences and newfound knowledge. The retreat may have ended, but its impact promised to resonate in homes and hearts for years to come.
For us, the Chishimbas, this experience was equally enriching. We found ourselves not just teachers but fellow learners, inspired by the dedication and love we witnessed. Our gratitude extends to the attentive couples, the gracious hosts at KUZIPA, and above all, to God's hands that brought us all together.
As we look forward to next year's retreat, we carry with us the warmth of new friendships, the inspiration of strengthened marriages, and the joy of lives touched. KUZIPA has truly set a new standard for marriage retreats, creating a haven where love is celebrated, nurtured, and renewed.
