25/11/2025
Gender-based violence is often spoken about as if it only affects women, but the truth is more complex. Violence can be committed by anyone, and anyone can be a victim. While society has made progress in recognizing the abuse women face, we still overlook the many men who suffer in silence.
Some women do use violence against their partners physically, emotionally, or psychologically and later present themselves as victims.
This does not erase the very real violence women face, but it does highlight a bigger truth: abuse is about power and control, not gender.
Men experiencing violence often stay quiet out of shame, fear of not being believed, or the belief that “men don’t get abused.” These stereotypes trap victims and protect abusers.
GBV prevention and support must include everyone:
- Women
- Men
- Children
- Anyone vulnerable to abuse
Protecting one group should never require ignoring another. Violence is wrong no matter who commits it, and every victim deserves to be heard, supported, and believed.
When there’s no peace in the house, men start abusing alcohol. Sometimes a road traffic accident is brewed from your bedroom. We have so many examples of people whose fatal road traffic accidents started from the bedroom. Confusion with the madam, but we won’t mention names.
Autism Advocacy Centre
Rosemary Kumwenda
25/11/25.
