
10/04/2025
April is c-section awareness month.
I was gutted when I found out I had to have a section with my 3rd baby. But I know it was for the best.
My placenta was low lying, and he had slowed down in his growth. So we had to get him out at 37 weeks.
I had time to plan my cesarian birth and I felt in control. I still had birth preferences which were met by the team that cared for me. I made a postnatal plan and prepared friend and family to what I needed from them.
When you arrive at the hospital, the planned day of your section, it's a waiting game. There may be other women in the que before you that need to be seen first. We got a little delayed but we used the time to relax together.
I counted 11 people, not including me in the theatre room. I used my yoga breathing to keep me calm and still. It takes about 15 minutes from arriving in theatre to baby being out, then 45 minutes to close up before recovery.
It's a massave operation. With little postnatal care. No bed rest, no physio. 2 hours after having Felix, I was expected to get up and care for him.
No one told me how scared I might feel.
That not being able to feel or move your legs is horrible.
No one saw how hard it was, just sitting for hours at a time.
No-one told me that the scare might pull for weeks, months and years afterwards.
I wasn't prepared for how much medication I needed to take.
No one told me I would have a numb lower back for months.
I wasn't prepared for how slow recovery was.
I missed my pre section body for months and months.
No one talks about the risks to your baby and the impacts it might have on them.
It is your choice but you should always have current and correct information, then think about the risks and benefits before you make a choice.