The Calming Cottage - Kaila Akers, Psychic Medium

05/10/2023

Do you have a favorite psychology and/or life-changing book? If so… leave it below for others to look into! 💛💛

05/03/2023

Repeat after me... 😌

05/02/2023

I have hit a pretty hard block after doing so many great readings the last couple of days. I feel my last two readings struggled due to this and I don’t want that experience for anyone! I’m going to slow down the practicing right now as I feel I’m supposed to be focusing on another portion of my practice while I wait for this block to clear.

- With that being said, please feel free to reach out for card readings! I’ll be doing these for free right now as well, but tips are accepted! 💛 Please feel free to also leave content that you guys are interested in below!

I will be doing readings again shortly and I do have a list of people I will reach out to once I get back into my mediumship readings again! I don’t want to give anyone a reading when I don’t feel at my spiritual best! Quality over quantity ☺️

04/30/2023

I do have limited spots available for these practice mediumship readings! I’m sure you all can imagine the amount of people reaching out to me right now. Feel free to reach out if interested, you will at least get a card pull from me!

-I also do not do these for family, the conflict of interest really affects my readings. However, if you are a family member and want some cards… Please let me know 💛

04/26/2023

Something is wrong with my reviews! I just wanted to share this one again! My most special review to date. So thrilled I was able to help this sweet lady 💛

04/26/2023

- WHAT TO EXPECT?

If you’re curious how it works or how you will be treated… With me you are guaranteed to be accepted for who you or regardless of what information is brought through. You will be treated with kindness, an open mind & heart. Readings are often difficult for people (they are also difficult for me) because a majority of the time it’s closure that was never given prior to the individual passing, so expect a lot of compassion and empathy from me.

I am still learning what works best from me. I consider myself a student still! I may be able to pick up on this energy before even speaking with you or I may even need an image from you to start. It really just depends! Reach out to me if you’re curious, I’d love to talk 💛💛

**HATEFUL MESSAGES/COMMENTS WILL NOT BE TOLERATED!! HOWEVER, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ASK ME GENUINE & KIND QUESTIONS!**

12/13/2022

I’ve been logged out of this account all last week and I finally got back in! Sorry for all of the missed messages, I believe I’ve replied back to everyone already ♥️

Original artist unknown, but beautiful picture and meaning!

12/05/2022

Check out your most ethereal self using Lensa AI! Post yours below, these are so fun 🤩

11/28/2022

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11/26/2022

“Sometimes in the waves of change,
we find our true direction”

Remember, embrace all of the changes happening around you….These tides are pivotal moments that help shape your world. They may not be expected, but the waves will take you exactly were you’re destined to be!

11/24/2022, Thanksgiving Day, Flagler Beach, FL 🌊

11/24/2022

Take up ALL the space 🤗

11/24/2022

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone 🤗🌿

Make sure to practice gratitude today (& everyday!).

11/24/2022

Please remember to be unapologetically you, give yourself grace, & grieve how you need to grieve this holiday season! ♥️

11/17/2022

Remember to embrace your strange today 😌

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11/16/2022

What are you doing to make your mental health a priority right now? Find mine in the comments! 🙂

11/15/2022

Unfortunately, I’ve been neglecting this page of mine for quite some time. My goal is to get back too it as a way to give an outlet for people to know they aren’t alone.

- I figured that many like myself are going through some things right now that have them doubtful about life and you all could use this just like me. Mine is currently my health that keeps giving me the run around.

Keep your heads up, stay positive, and reach out if you need too ♥️

09/20/2022

Every little thing’s… gonna be alright! 🎶 Keep your heads up on this beautiful Tuesday morning!

09/11/2022

YOU matter first! 😌😌

09/10/2022

Did you know? 🤔 Epsom salts have SO many benefits! Currently my favorite reasons to use are to reduce inflammation, soreness for working out, spiritual cleansing and to get MAGNESIUM!!

Read below for some facts about magnesium 🤩

Epsom salt allows magnesium to get into your system through your skin which makes this super great for people who struggle to take it orally. Many people lack magnesium in their bodies and it’s not typically treated by western medicine doctors unless it’s extremely low.

Magnesium is used by our nervous system and our muscles! It works in over 300 different ways in our bodies to supply us with what we need, such as strong bones when it works with calcium!

Having the optimal amount of magnesium in your system allows for you to get great sleep, more energy, prevents cramping in your muscles, and is very calming.

✨Magnesium is actually directly linked by research to higher levels of serotonin in the body!✨ Serotonin is linked to everything from hunger/digestion, memory, sleep, and sexual health ☺️🤩

**While being relatively safe, please consult with your doctor before taking magnesium, as there are some medications that can be affected by usage.**

09/10/2022

Remember our earlier post about raising vibrations? Here’s a great way! Say some of these affirmations to yourself every day in the mirror 🖤😌

09/08/2022

Raising your vibration will help make you happier, lighter, and more at peace! If your vibrations are lower you will likely feel dark, heavy, and possibly even depressed.

Looking for ways to raise your vibrations or make your days a little brighter? Here’s a few daily tips!

You don’t have to know all the whys or hows to everything on this list (such as what to write when you journal)… just go with what feels right to you 😌

09/07/2022

Post your last inspirational quote saved to your phone, down in the comments! 👇👇👇

09/07/2022

09/07/2022

- Healing Is Not Linear -

A lot of people tend to think healing (whether it be physically or mentally) is done in a method similar to climbing a set of stairs, meeting milestone after milestone with nothing in between & an easy end goal of being healed.

While life would be much easier if it operated this way, it simply doesn’t. Instead, you take two steps up that staircase towards healing and are likely knocked down a step (or a few) by the ebb and flow of life.

Although you end up knocked down, you ultimately made some net progress. This may be a lesson learned or a heart broken, but you leave that step with a little more knowledge than you did the last time you were there. This is the inevitable process of healing.

Healing is hard, it is one of the most difficult things we will ever do in our lifetimes. Trying to heal past wounds, childhood traumas, generational curses, broken hearts & so much more…

Most people going through their healing journey hit points where they feel doomed and stuck with their feelings of anger, sadness, guilt, shame, & regret. These emotions can be hard to get passed; however, we have to learn to see the bigger picture (or the top of the staircase in this analogy).

I know, I know… easier said than done. We as humans have a tendency to pay attention to what is in close proximity to us and this can make it hard to feel like any of the “good progress” wasn’t just for nothing.

The reality is, is it’s all good progress. Actively taking steps to see yourself in a better position one day will help. Here’s a list below of tips, reminders, and small steps you can take as often as you see fit to brighten your hard days a little and make another small step towards your ultimate goal of healing.

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-Remember, if something doesn’t work for you, you can try something new or adapt it to fit your individual needs!

-Failing to stick to a routine doesn’t mean routines can’t work for you. It just means you need to sit back and look at the progress you made between before and after you decided to make a change and remember your end goal.

-Time itself is unlikely to heal. You likely need to do some self reflection and work on yourself some. Journaling each day is an excellent way to do this. Just let your words flow even if they don’t make sense, you will eventually get there.

-Make a goal board filled with what you are using as motivation. This can be done on poster board or even Pinterest! Whatever calls to you.

- Daily affirmations in the mirror! This can be as simple as reminding yourself what you’re working towards and saying you can do this.

-Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Speak to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist. There are many therapy programs out there to help guide you through your journey of self healing.

-Take your feelings seriously. It is OKAY to feel what you’re feeling. Acknowledge them as they arise so they don’t pile up and create problems later on.

-Remember that healing HURTS and that’s okay. If it was easier, everyone would be doing it.

- It is alright to cut toxic people out of your life to create peace and healing for yourself. In this journey the person that matters most is you.

09/07/2022