Sarah-Jane Roe - Soul Healing

26/09/2024

Softer, Gentler, Kinder, Truer.

That's how I want to be, how I strive to be, how I long to be.

For it not to hurt as much, for it not to sting, for it not to stab.

What I am learning is that resistance is futile.
If there is a message that needs to be delivered in God’s Universe it will be delivered.
Emotions in our spiritual body, in our emotional body. Longing to be seen, held and felt.

The errors need to be removed and it’s a sin to think that you don’t have to, to think that you don’t need to, to think you are better than that.

It’s time for us to really do the work.
Our children's hearts, mind, body and Soul are dependent on it.
They are our mirrors, we know this.
Reflecting back to us every single tiny little piece that isn’t healed.

I know you want better for them.
If you can’t do it for you…yet.
Maybe you still wrestle with self-hatred, with putting on a show.
That’s ok. We are doing the best with what we have got in this moment.

You don’t have to do it alone, not that we are EVER alone of course.
Connecting with other women, in truth, around the reality of the parenting that our children have had to endure. To see the impact of that in them.

It's powerful, no pretending, no excuses, the truth.

We are fu***ng up all the time.
And that’s ok because the intention to do it differently to what was done to us is HUGE. It counts for so much.

If you finding that you keep repeating the patterns, keep justifying, keep making excuses…
Trying to think yourself out of your fury, intellectualise yourself of your rage. Meditate yourself out of the s**t that was projected onto you.
It doesn’t work, believe me I’ve tried.

To love our children so much that it feels like you are going to burst…to miss them, to long for them. Because they fill a void, they fill a hole. The emptiness that your own mother could never be there for you, or that she was there for you so much there was no room for you to know you.

I have a space where there is room for all of you you and ALL of YOU is WELCOME.

Learning to open up to God’s love to burn away all of the pieces that we don't need. The shame, the guilt, the resentment, the criticism, the list goes on…

We live it, we are it. But we can heal it. I am living proof.

I’d love to support you on your journey, let’s support each other by being honest about our reality. Really, really honest.

✨𝐒𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐦𝐦𝐚 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐂𝐢𝐫𝐜𝐥𝐞✨4 spots left in October…is one of them yours?

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I am rooting for you, for me, in a way I once never knew was possible.

Sending you love, I hope to be with you there.

Sarah-Jane xo

A donation based 4 hour transformational Sacred Circle dedicated to intentional Healing & Self-Love.

25/01/2024

6 has been a ride so far…wow 🤩

The magnitude of emotion/expression feels like it has upped a notch. The loop headphones are out!👂

I’m always reflecting what happened to me at this age, to my Mum, to my Gran…and of course on Colin’s side too. It’s truly incredible what’s stored in our cellular memory, in our body, it remembers everything because we certainly don’t 🙉

At times we’ve used every coping strategy under the sun to compartmentalise and forget. Many still do. This is not my path, I will continue to unpick and peel back the layers, engage my practices and do everything I can as not to project my wounds onto my daughter 👧

My shadow, like many, had been significant and I’ll do the best I can not to judge, belittle, punish or shame her’s. I carry a lot, she carry’s a lot, WE carry a lot yet we don’t have to carry it alone ❤️‍🩹

My little love has picked up some unhealthy patterns no doubt, for that I too take responsibility. It’s my job now to recognise these, not make excuses for the times I’ve overcompensated my poor behaviour by creating them. To support her to unlearn and release them as I have had to, and continue to do so 🥸

I will do my best to model something different that I was never taught. Better out than in has never ringed more true, and I’m not just talking about farts 🤣🛎️💨

I will do my best to never make her feelings wrong (remembering I’m human) but she does have to realise time and time again that she can’t always have what she wants. I believe one of the greatest gifts I can give her is to learn how to handle disappointment. There has been lots and lots of that this year and there will undoubtedly be more. We are buckling up for the ride 🎢

We can’t think our way into knowing but we can use the multitude of tools available out there to dig a bit deeper into our Soul, into our hearts, into our body-mind. For ourselves and for our children 😇

“The wounds aren’t our fault but the healing is our responsibility” rings so very true and is music to my ears to find others on this journey or in alignment with these beliefs 👏

Are you ready to take the next steps, are you ready to dig a bit deeper. Are you ready to open up to the aliveness and expansion that lies at the other side of having your consciousness raised?

If so I’m here, I’m ready and can’t wait to be with you 💕

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And of course I’ll take the opportunity to mention ✨Sister Mamma Soul Circle✨ I can feel how incredibly healing it is going to be for the Women in attendance, including me! The last event booked out, spaces reduced from 10 to 12 for extra comfort and intimacy. Grab your ticket and don’t miss out 🤗💗🤩

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Lots of love from my tender heart to yours 💕

Sarah-Jane 💚🙏✨