30/12/2023
Well, here's to the end of 2023 and welcoming in 2024!
It's been a funny old year, filled with lots of change, growth, letting go, sadness, creation, joy... all the things!
I've gone through a fair bit of heartache this year, with loved ones and FINALLY letting go of relationships not working, after trying and hanging in there for so long 😪
I felt shame, hurt and sadness at the fact that we didn't work out and had to do alot of soul searching and looking at why I had been hell bent on hanging onto something that clearly wasn't working.
I saw potential... but saw a great post today that reminded me... the only potential I saw was how I would have behaved in the same position. (Which is also a bit judgy)
Because we can never make a person behave how WE want them to. We can't force them to change or to be honest with us... it's impossible.
But by believing that they potentially COULD be these things, I wasn't being honest with MYSELF or having integrity with MYSELF...
2023 saw me finally cut the cord. It feels good to now have firm boundaries and LISTEN to my own gut and trust my own truth. Finally!
My darling kids have been through the wringer and taken me to new levels of fear, but then coming out the other side, a bit less rigid and again, I had to learn to let go of holding the reins so tightly.
I am proud to say, my daughter told me I have gotten way less controlling! And I think it shows in our relationship and how honest she now is with me. Of course we still fight, we're human! But there's been a letting go and now she feels safe to lose her s**t with me, which is awesome! (Not at the time, but looking back, its so amazing!)
So I kept particularly quiet these last few months, as I've been preferring to go inwards and work through it all without sharing. I've also preferred to spend less time on social media as I find it so soul destroying.
Looking forward to a new year with fresh energy and hopefully a new abode (putting it out there!) 🤞🤞🤞
2024 for me is going to be about fine tuning... focus on my business and who I'm here to serve, decluttering my "office", saying no to things that are just distractions and taking more action 🙌🔥
I have new Circles planned for Mum's of Spirited Kids and have a new location in Kalamunda where I'll be running them from and can't wait!
I love bringing women together and love that we heal together through sharing knowledge, our hearts and doing our own inner work, without trying to change our kids ❤️ Super powerful! 👌✨️
Happy New Year to u all (for tmw) and here's to bringing in more joy, more abundance, more connection and more love!
See you on the flip side!
2024 here we come!! 🙌😍
P.s. if you're a mum of a spirited kid and feeling frustrated and alone on yr journey, please pm me so I can send you deets for my upcoming Circles, once I have finalised the dates 🙏❤️