Sasha Moss - From the Feminine

12/03/2026

The link is now available 😍 ‘The Power of Women’s Circles: Conversations of Becoming and Unbecoming’ 💕 Link in comments

09/03/2026

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My religion is other women.

This isn’t tongue in cheek.

My religion congregates around a fire, in a cramped room we booked to talk, in an idling car for way too long, in someone’s living room, in the cold, because there’s more to say and hear.

There is a spark of divinity I know to look for
when she says something she’s never said out loud before. There is a spiritual rumble in the dehydrated voices of women who aren’t used to saying so much.

When I hear another woman articulate something I’ve never been able to, that’s the voice of my god speaking to me. It's ancient, forbidden knowledge, and it fills my body with my self.

There’s power in our warm red blood.

~ Lane Lloyd

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08/03/2026

08/03/2026

Happy International Women’s Day!

Thank you to the many circles of women, professionally and personally, who have been part of my formation and allowed me to do what I love … who have inspired, led, loved and championed me … as leaders, mentors, colleagues, teachers, friends, daughters and mothers.

Every day this work becomes more and more important and non-negotiable.

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02/03/2026

Quiet quitting …

Marriage is a huge gamble. And when women lose, they lose big. Men can abuse them, kill them, weaponize the family court system against them for years. And most bystanders will tell them to keep trying, to keep going to therapy, to keep asking what they can do differently until it’s too late.

Most women come to feminist consciousness too late. By then, they’re already married. And they may have spent years being gaslit, thinking that if they just communicate better or make more lists or become more deserving, their husbands will treat them like human beings who matter.

They won’t.

The truth in most heterosexual marriages is that he is never going to change. Men are taught not to view women as people, to prioritize their desires above others’ basic needs, and to never sacrifice for women. This is why they make the same arguments and excuses, and why the behaviors of sexist men are all so similar. If your husband relaxes while you work, systematically ignores your needs, demeans your body, emotionally abuses you, mistreats your children, or engages in other acts of abuse and unkindness, rest assured that he has swallowed patriarchal indoctrination whole. He will not change until he wants to—and as long as he is able to keep reaping the benefits of patriarchy, he won’t want to change.

Every moment spend pleading with him, every hour spent in couples therapy, every hopeless page you read of Fair Play is time you have wasted on someone who doesn’t deserve it. You can’t save your marriage. You cannot convince someone wearing a blindfold to see your humanity.

I’ve advised women for a long time that, if they can’t leave, they should quiet quit—either as a bridge to leaving or as a way of buckling down and dealing until a door out opens.

Quiet quitting is a worst-case scenario, not the solution to every bad marriage. If you can find any way at all to leave, you should.

If you need time to save money, or to build your case, or for your kids to grow up, consider emotionally exiting until a physical exit becomes possible.

https://zawn.substack.com/p/quiet-quitting-101-how-to-emotionally-c54

25/02/2026

Matriarchal rage is not hysteria, bitterness, or chaos.

It is a fire.

A fire that refuses to normalize violence. It burns through gaslighting, colonial conditioning, and the polite lies we were taught to swallow.

A fire that clears the debris so something life-giving can grow.

When women, matriarchs, and femmes are told to soften, be digestible, and tone it down for the comfort of systems built on domination, they are really being asked to do is dim their clarity and instincts.

How do we harness it without letting it consume us?
How do we turn that fire into protection, leadership, and collective healing?

On February 25, Waneek Horn-Miller and I are coming together to speak directly to this from lived experience, political violence, survival, love for our People and Nations.

In this webinar, we’ll explore:

🌿 What matriarchy actually is--not the Barbie-movie version, but the relational, Land-based, egalitarian governance our ancestors practiced
🌿 The neuroscience of rage
🌿 Why silencing your rage leads to burnout, collapse, and self-doubt
🌿 How matriarchs can use rage strategically with clarity, truth-telling, boundary, action
🌿 And how to reclaim rage as medicine, direction, and leadership in your own community

🗓 February 25
⏰ 12 PM EST
📍 Zoom (replay available)

Sign up through the RIW Patreon (Tier 3):

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Tomorrow, we tend to the fire together 🔥

22/02/2026

The power of matriarchy 🌸💗🌸

22/02/2026

Patriarchy aa malfunction….

19/02/2026

09/02/2026

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Change starts by actually addressing things with the people around us.

06/02/2026

On a post full moon sleepless night, why not try out a viral AI prompt 😍 …

‘Ask AI - ceate a caricature of me and my job based on everything you know about me... ‘

04/10/2025

We’ve been sold the idea that rest is just another kind of self-care. But Tricia Hersey, founder of The Nap Ministry, says rest is far more radical.

Rest, she argues, is how we reclaim our humanity from the systems that tell us our worth is only in what we produce.

✨ What shifts when we start to see rest not as luxury, but as liberation?

Read the full interview with Hersey in the September/October issue of Psychotherapy Networker Magazine.

🔗Click the link to learn more https://bit.ly/4pJOl8I