13/01/2026
๐ Grab a piece of paper and a pen and write these questions down and give them an answer.
โ If I could do the last 2 years of my life differently, what would I do?
โ What stopped me from changing them then?
โ What are 2 things in my life that aren't working for me right now?
โ What can I do to change what's not working for me now?
โ ๏ธ This last question...
If you are someone who has learned that someone else is better at making decisions for you than you are, or it is someone else's responsibility to change what your life looks like, then there may be a high chance your answer will be:
"I can't do anything to change what's not working for me now".
I want you to understand a few things here:
1๏ธโฃ You ALWAYS have a choice, even when you feel like you don't.
2๏ธโฃ It doesn't have to be a big choice to create change.
It's more about learning that YOU are able to change something that isn't working for you, moreso than being about what kind of change is needed.
3๏ธโฃ Accountability can be hard, and stepping into that discomfort and fear of failure is what creates your growth and resilience. Own the feeling that comes with the discomfort of change instead of running from it.
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๏ธ Just because you've always done life a certain way, doesn't mean you have to keep doing it that way if it's not working for you!
YES, this can be hard!
Your current life situation feels hard.
Making a decision and having that hard conversation feels hard.
๐ You get to choose your hard!
You first have to recognise what isn't working for you and then ask the right questions that will navigate you to growth.
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Clinical & Translational Neuroscientist | Neuroscience based intervention for trauma & stress | Neuroplasticity neurotherapy | Trauma & stress neuroeducation | Frontline stress & trauma training
"Understand your brain and behaviour with neuroscience"
~ Charlotte Moore
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