26/01/2026
Parenting a teen changed how I parent 😅
Last year made something clear:
rules and punishments weren’t cutting it anymore.
This is my second teenager — different kid, different context, different needs.
I didn’t have it all figured out the first time, and this one needs to be parented differently.
So I made this Values Agreement for 15–18 year olds — not a legal contract, but a shared guide we come back to when things wobble.
It’s about respect 🤝, responsibility + freedom 🌱, safety 🛟, and repair 🔧.
This is not about condoning drugs or alcohol 🚫🍺 — it’s a practical, safety-first approach that keeps honesty and connection front and centre.
Simple. Clear. Co-created (not imposed).
Best for 15–18 year olds.
A 12–15 version is coming soon 👀
📸 Cover photo taken by my teen — he’s got a great eye.
At first glance it looks like a cityscape: the crowd like lights, the performer like a tall building. It says a lot about power, people, and noticing how we see the world.
Together, we’re better 💛
https://whizkidstherapy.com/values/