16/12/2025
In healthy relationships, space can be an act of care, especially when emotions are high or nervous systems are overwhelmed.
Here's some ideas on how you and your partner/s can take space respectfully (especially with an anxious partner):
• Name it clearly: “I need a break to regulate, not to leave.”
• Give a time frame: “Let’s check back in after dinner / tomorrow morning.”
• Reassure the bond: “We’re okay, I just need a pause to process and regulate my nervous system.”
• Avoid disappearing completely, silence can feel threatening.
• Follow through on reconnecting. Repair builds trust.
Space with intention supports safety, not distance.
Avoidance disconnects. Planned pauses protect.