01/02/2026
Our Shadow Side
We all have a shadow side that lurks in the background of the soundtrack of our lives.
The shadow side represents the unconscious, repressed, or disowned aspects of the personality—including "negative" traits like anger, fear, and selfishness, as well as hidden talents. It acts as a "dark side" that, if ignored, can cause self-sabotage, relationship issues, and projection of these traits onto others.
The idea of therapy can be to make the unconscious conscious, leading to wholeness, authenticity, and personal growth by identifying triggers (what bothers you in others is often a reflection of your own shadow), analyzing recurring conflicts, and journaling.
Embracing the shadow reduces the need for projection, improves emotional regulation, and fosters self-acceptance.
Aveley Counselling Services sees both individuals and couples counselling and loves working with people with Borderline Personality Disorder.
Sonia Neale (BA Arts - Psych/Counselling). Counsellor/Psychotherapist. Member ACA Level 2
Mobile: 0427 730 444
Email: aveleycounselling@iinet.net.au
Website: aveleycounsellingservices.com
Address: Upper level, Aveley Medical Centre, 15 Flecker Promenade, Aveley