Lessons With Ant

Lessons With Ant Inspiration for those seeking it, understanding for those needing it, guidance for those open to it. Blessed Be )O(

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As we journey through life we learn lessons that we wish we could share with the world and now Facebook has created a vehicle for us to do this. This is my way of giving back to the Universe and the world. Please feel free to Share any posts, like my page, ask questions and give your opinion on anything I post. We may not always see eye to eye but I will defend to the death your right to your own opinion/beliefs. Any pictures not taken by me have been sourced from Google images or pages I am a member of. If any images need to be removed, a request from the owner of said image will be required prior to its removal.

Can 100% relate. Especially when it's  a long series... like... what? They have lives after these events, what about tha...
31/03/2026

Can 100% relate. Especially when it's a long series... like... what? They have lives after these events, what about that? I want to see that!

I'M BAAAAAAACK! Thanks for the patience, peoples. To say it's been a rough return from paradise would be an UNDERSTATEME...
31/03/2026

I'M BAAAAAAACK!

Thanks for the patience, peoples. To say it's been a rough return from paradise would be an UNDERSTATEMENT... I'm very lucky to have the husband I have; let's just leave it at that.

Shall we get back into this then?

Hey everyone. I am still very under the weather, so no posts this week. Hopefully I can get back on top of things by mid...
23/03/2026

Hey everyone. I am still very under the weather, so no posts this week. Hopefully I can get back on top of things by mid-week. Sorry ๐Ÿ˜ข

Lesson 235 - Toxic positivity is just gaslighting with glitter on itThere is a lot of pressure in the spiritual world to...
20/03/2026

Lesson 235 - Toxic positivity is just gaslighting with glitter on it

There is a lot of pressure in the spiritual world to maintain "high vibes" at all costs. You are told to smile through the pain and look for the silver lining before you have even acknowledged the storm. But pretending you are okay when your world is on fire is not resilience. It is denial.

You do not have to spiritualise your trauma right away. Sometimes things just suck and you are allowed to say that. True optimism is not ignoring the darkness; it is the capacity to sit in the pitch black knowing that the light will eventually return.

Stop trying to put a positive spin on a train wreck. Honour your heavy feelings. They are legitimate. You can be deeply sad and deeply hopeful at the very same time.

Every time I use these, I just keep seeing the skeleton in The Last Unicorn lol. ๐Ÿญ. ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฆ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€This is the moment th...
19/03/2026

Every time I use these, I just keep seeing the skeleton in The Last Unicorn lol.

๐Ÿญ. ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฆ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€
This is the moment the truth finally pierces through the illusions you have been using for protection. It feels sharp and perhaps a bit overwhelming, but the Three of Swords is actually a card of liberation. By acknowledging exactly where the hurt is, you stop the energy from festering and allow the air to finally get to the wound.

Do not try to rush your way out of this feeling or pretend you are tougher than you are. There is a specific kind of beauty in being this honest with yourself about your own heart. Feel the sting fully, let the release happen, and trust that you are clearing the way for a much deeper and more authentic peace to take root.

๐Ÿฎ. ๐—ง๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ
You are in the delicate process of blending the disparate parts of your life into a new, more balanced version of yourself. Temperance is about the "middle way", reminding you that healing is rarely a straight line but rather a slow, steady titration of energy. You are learning how to hold your grief and your joy at the same time without one drowning out the other.

Patience is your greatest ally right now as you test the waters of this new reality. You do not need to have all the answers or a perfectly finished product yet. Focus on the quiet adjustments you are making every day and trust that the mixture is settling exactly as it should. You are becoming much more resilient through this careful integration.

๐Ÿฏ. ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ต
Something in your life is reaching its natural and necessary conclusion to make room for a massive rebirth. Death is not a card of doom; it is the ultimate "clear out" that ensures you do not get stuck in a version of yourself that you have outgrown. You are standing at the threshold where the old self falls away so the new one can finally breathe.

While endings can feel heavy, try to look at what is being simplified in your life right now. By letting go of the dead weight, you are freeing up an incredible amount of energy for what comes next. Focus on the space being created and trust the cycle of renewal that is already beginning beneath the surface.

๐Ÿฐ. ๐—™๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€
You are currently navigating a bit of a chaotic scramble where everyone seems to have a different opinion on how you should move forward. This is high-friction energy that can feel like a lot of noise, but it is actually helping you sharpen your own perspective. The competition or conflict you are facing is forcing you to figure out what you truly stand for.

Do not let the bickering drain your spirit or make you doubt your path. Use this tension as a catalyst to refine your ideas and strengthen your resolve. Focus on your own footwork rather than trying to control the movements of everyone else in the ring. You are learning how to hold your ground in the midst of the fray.

๐Ÿฑ. ๐—ž๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€
You have arrived at the final stage of this journey, where you are no longer reacting to the world but actively directing it. The King of Wands is the master of his own fire, representing a level of visionary leadership and raw charisma that is impossible to ignore. You have taken your experiences and turned them into a source of immense authority and creative power.

It is time to stop playing small and start owning the room with the confidence you have earned. You have the grit and the passion to see your biggest ideas through to the end, so do not be afraid to take the lead. Focus on your long-term legacy and trust that your internal fire is more than enough to light the way for others.

Lesson  #234 โ€“ You are never going to "arrive" so stop waitingWe have bought into the damaging myth that life is a desti...
18/03/2026

Lesson #234 โ€“ You are never going to "arrive" so stop waiting

We have bought into the damaging myth that life is a destination. You think that once you get the partner or the promotion or the house by the sea, you will finally be able to exhale and the credits will roll on a happy ending. But "there" does not exist.

As soon as you achieve the goal, it stops being the destination and just becomes your new normal. The goalpost immediately moves another ten kilometres down the road. If you are postponing your joy until everything is perfect, you are going to run out of time.

Stop treating your life like a waiting room for a future that has not happened yet. This messy, incomplete Tuesday is the main event. You have to learn to fall in love with the process of climbing because the mountain has no top.

Have any skeletons in your closet that are making noises? Might be a good idea to do this one...
17/03/2026

Have any skeletons in your closet that are making noises? Might be a good idea to do this one...

Lesson  #233 - There is no perfect choice so just pick oneYou are likely standing at a crossroads right now, paralysed b...
16/03/2026

Lesson #233 - There is no perfect choice so just pick one

You are likely standing at a crossroads right now, paralysed by the fear of making the wrong move. You are waiting for a burning bush or a handwritten note from the universe to tell you which path guarantees success and zero heartbreak. You are wasting your life waiting for certainty that is never going to arrive.

The truth is that there is no "right" path hidden behind door number two. Both paths will have magic and both paths will have mud. The mistake is not picking the wrong road; the mistake is standing still at the intersection until your legs give out.

Stop trying to outsmart your future. Make a choice based on the best data and gut instinct you have right now and then commit to making it work. You have the power to make any path the right one simply by walking it with conviction.

Guess who has a new website!
13/03/2026

Guess who has a new website!

Lesson  #232 - Be brave enough to suck at something newWe stop playing when we grow up because we are terrified of looki...
13/03/2026

Lesson #232 - Be brave enough to suck at something new

We stop playing when we grow up because we are terrified of looking stupid. You stick to the things you are already good at because your ego hates the feeling of clumsiness. But that means your world gets smaller and smaller every year.

The joy of being a beginner is one of the purest feelings available. It is the freedom of having zero expectations. Who cares if the painting is ugly? Who cares if you trip over the dance steps? The point is not the mastery the point is the experience.

Go be a disastrously bad surfer. Write terrible poetry. Bake a cake that collapses. The willingness to be bad at something is the price of entry for a life that feels alive.

๐Ÿญ. ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑYou have been feeling a bit boxed in lately, as if you are living inside a set of rules or expectations that ...
12/03/2026

๐Ÿญ. ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ
You have been feeling a bit boxed in lately, as if you are living inside a set of rules or expectations that do not actually belong to you. This card acknowledges that mental or emotional cage you have built to keep yourself safe, but it also reminds you that the door has never actually been locked. You have been waiting for someone to let you out when you are the only one with the key in your pocket.

Gently acknowledge the ways you have been playing small to avoid making waves or to stay comfortable. It is time to look at the bars of this cage and realise they are mostly made of old habits and "shoulds" that no longer apply to the person you are becoming. Focus on what it would feel like to simply step out into the open air without asking for anyone's permission first.

๐Ÿฎ. ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต
There is a quiet, steady endurance at play in your life right now that is far more powerful than any loud display of force. You have been navigating a tricky situation with a level of grace and patience that is truly impressive, even if you feel tired behind the scenes. This is the strength of a flower growing through concrete; it does not fight the rock, it just persists until it finds the sun.

Trust that your current softness is not a weakness. By staying grounded and refusing to be hardened by external pressures, you are winning a much deeper battle. Focus on maintaining that internal warmth and keep moving forward with that gentle persistence you have cultivated. You are far more resilient than you give yourself credit for.

๐Ÿฏ. ๐—•๐—น๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—บ
The winter phase of your life is officially over and you are being invited to open up and show your true colours. This is a moment of pure, unapologetic expansion where you stop preparing and start actually being. You have done the deep work in the dark, and now the environment is finally right for you to flourish in a way that feels effortless and beautiful.

Do not try to hide your growth because you are afraid it might be too much for others to handle. This is your time to take up space and radiate your natural energy without filter or apology. Focus on the joy of this opening and allow yourself to be seen in your full, vibrant reality. You are exactly where you are supposed to be.

๐Ÿฐ. ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ธ
You are being reminded that you have a direct line to the universe and your ability to manifest change is peaking right now. This is not about tricks or illusions; it is about the raw, elemental power of your intentions and how they shape the world around you. You are being called to step back into your role as a co-creator and start directing your energy with more purpose.

Stop doubting the "coincidences" and start paying attention to the synchronicities popping up in your daily life. When you align your actions with your spirit, things start to click into place with a speed that can feel a bit uncanny. Focus on the rituals and habits that make you feel connected to your power and trust that your magic is very real and very present.

11/03/2026

Hey peeps. Just a heads up, I am currently in Thailand so if I'm slow to reply to booking requests, that's why :)

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