Lessons With Ant

07/01/2026

Lesson #204: You are missing the magic right in front of you

Sometimes we get so obsessed with the big neon signs from the universe that we walk straight past the quiet whispers. You might be waiting for the lightning bolt or the sudden epiphany that changes your entire trajectory by Tuesday afternoon. But spirit is usually much quieter than that. It lives in the specific way the light hits your kitchen bench or that song coming on shuffle at the exact right second.

Real magic is actually very ordinary. It is woven into the fabric of your morning commute and the taste of your coffee. When you stop demanding that the universe perform grand tricks for you, you start to see that the show is already happening. You just need to sit in the audience and watch with a bit more curiosity.

Pay attention to the texture of things today. Notice the colour of the sky or the strange coincidence that makes you smile. That sense of awe you are hunting for is not in some distant future version of your life. It is sitting right there in the messy and beautiful now, waiting for you to look at it.

06/01/2026

Thanks for being a top engager and making it on to my weekly engagement list! 🎉 Jenni Williams, Lisa Bito, Harry Ulijn, Lynne Smith, Jennifer Lynn Hendron

06/01/2026

FYI this one is a sharp one... just sayin...

05/01/2026

Lesson #203: Closure is not a receipt. You can choose your ending without getting one more conversation.

Closure gets marketed like something another person hands you, neatly wrapped, with an apology on top. Like if you just wait long enough, the perfect conversation will arrive and your heart will feel tidy. But real life is rarely that polite. People leave things half said. They ghost. They deflect. They move on without a final scene. And you can still heal anyway.

What I see most is people holding the door open in their own mind, hoping closure will show up and make it all make sense. But closure is not a gift you receive. It is a decision you make when you stop asking the past to explain itself again. It is you saying, "I have enough information now. I know how it felt in my body. I know what it took from me. I do not need one more message to prove it was real."

So if you have been circling the same story, try offering yourself a cleaner ending. Not because it was fair. Because you are finished paying for it with your peace. You can grieve without reopening contact. You can miss them and still choose distance. You can bless what was good and still release the rest. Closure is not a receipt. It is your soul choosing to stop shopping in the same aisle.

04/01/2026

Imma be here!

There are only 5 spots left for our New Year Mystical Reading Night, and they won't last. So if you've been umming and ahhing about coming, this is your sign to book!👇

02/01/2026

Lesson #202: You do not get extra points for the hard way. Ease can be guidance too.

Sometimes the simplest option lands in front of you, and you immediately distrust it. You start hunting for the hidden catch. You tell yourself the easy way must be lazy or not spiritual enough, or it will not build character. So you pick the complicated route. The exhausting one. The one that turns your week into a juggling act, and then you call it growth.

But life is not a suffering contest. You do not need to prove you are worthy by choosing what drains you. Some things are meant to be straightforward. Some doors open because you are ready, not because you fought hard enough. And if a choice leaves you with more energy, more patience, and more room to breathe, that is not suspicious. That is support.

If you are torn between two options right now, try listening for the one that feels clean. Not thrilling. Not dramatic. Just clear. The one that does not require you to twist yourself into a new shape to make it work. You are allowed to choose what is sustainable. You are allowed to let ease be part of your path. Spirit is not asking you to do it the hard way. Spirit is asking you to do it the true way.

01/01/2026

These cards do not sugarcoat, but they do tell the truth that sets you free. Take what lands, leave the rest.

𝟭. 𝗢𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱𝗹𝘆
You’re kind of… halfway out of the room lately, yeah? Like you’re here, but you’re not fully here.

This can be intuition turning up. More signs, more dreams, more “I just know” moments. But I’ll be real, sometimes this card also shows up when we’re floating because being grounded feels too intense.

So ask yourself, am I genuinely tuning in, or am I disappearing a little?

What helps right now is boring stuff that works. Food. Sleep. Water. A walk. A shower. Something that brings you back into your body. Your spiritual gifts work better when your body is at ease.

𝟮. 𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻
You’re meant to make something. And it’s meant to be real, not just an idea you keep in your head.

This could be a project, a new chapter, a relationship that needs effort, a big decision, or you rebuilding your confidence from the ground up. And yep, it might feel messy. Creation usually does.

This card is basically saying, stop waiting to feel ready. Start where you are. Do one small thing consistently and let it grow. The magic is in the follow through.

𝟯. 𝗘𝘅𝗶𝗹𝗲
This is the card of feeling left out, pushed out, or like you don’t fully belong where you are.

Sometimes it’s other people. Sometimes it’s you pulling away because it feels safer to isolate than to risk being hurt. Either way, this card says the loneliness is real, but it’s not the truth of you.

You’re not meant to do everything alone. Reach out to one person. Just one. Or put yourself back in spaces where your people would actually be. Because there’s a version of you that’s ready to come home to life again, and this card is asking you to take that step.

31/12/2025

Lesson #201: You are not behind. You are incubating. The roots are working even when nobody can see them.

It is so easy to look around and decide everyone else got the memo. They are launching, moving, partnering up, glowing, posting progress like it is a sport. Meanwhile, you feel like you are in a quiet pocket of time where nothing is obvious yet. And the mind loves to call that failure. But a lot of your life is built in places that do not look impressive. The unseen part. The part where you are becoming someone who can actually hold what you say you want.

Not every season is for public wins. Some seasons are for private rearranging. Your values shift. Your standards sharpen. Your desires get more honest. You start saying no without writing a thesis. You stop chasing people who only liked the version of you that was easy to access. None of that makes for a flashy update, but it changes everything. It is like the roots deciding where the next growth will go.

If you are in that in-between right now, let it be what it is. You do not need to force a breakthrough just to feel on schedule. Notice what you are quietly protecting. Notice what you are no longer willing to tolerate. Notice what keeps calling you, even softly, even when you are tired. That is the incubation. That is the spell working under the surface.

One day you will look back and realise you were not stuck. You were gathering strength, clarity, and direction. You were getting ready in a way that actually lasts.

30/12/2025

Anyone who has had an in-person Reading from me probably recognises this deck. It's my go-to. But that means you also know that it does not pull ANY punches. The perfect deck for a New Year's Day Reading!

29/12/2025

Lesson #200: You do not have to name everything straight away. Let the unnamed be sacred for a while.

You do not have to label every feeling the second it arrives. Not every connection needs a title. Not every phase of your life needs a neat little explanation you can hand to other people like a brochure. Sometimes the most honest thing you can say is, I am not sure yet, but I can feel something is changing. That is still real. That is still valid. That is still you listening.

There is a weird pressure to translate your inner world into something easily understood. Are you over it? Are you healing? Are you manifesting? Are you in your villain era? But your spirit is not a trend cycle. It is allowed to be layered and a bit mysterious. Spiritual guidance is not always a loud answer. Sometimes it is a quiet permission to sit in the in-between without panicking or performing clarity.

If you are in a season where things feel foggy, try treating that fog like a soft veil, not a problem. Maybe you are falling out of love with an old version of yourself. Maybe you are being pulled towards something new, and you cannot name it yet. You do not need to force certainty to be safe. You can let your intuition lead by curiosity, by tiny nudges, by what keeps returning when you are calm. That is how personal growth actually happens most of the time.

Let the unnamed be sacred for a while. Let it unfold. The right words will arrive when they are ready, and they will feel less like a label and more like a sigh of recognition.

27/12/2025

I'll be there... this guy probably won't be... 🤣

Who's coming to the New Year Mystical Reading Night?

26/12/2025

Lesson #199: You are allowed to be a beginner again. Joy does not need a resume.

Somewhere along the way, a lot of people decide they are only allowed to do things they are already good at. It is like your joy needs a resume. If you cannot be impressive, you should not bother. But your spirit does not care about your performance. It cares about your aliveness. The beginner stage is not embarrassing; it is sacred. It is you meeting a new part of yourself without armour.

There is a particular kind of magic in not knowing. You listen more. You play more. You stop trying to control the outcome, and you start noticing what you actually enjoy. That is guidance. Not the loud kind. The quiet kind that shows you where your curiosity lives, where your attention softens, and where your imagination wakes up and stretches like a cat in the sun.

If you have been feeling stuck, consider this your permission slip to be bad at something on purpose. To learn slowly. To laugh at the messy first attempts. To let the point be the experience, not the applause. You do not need to turn every interest into an identity or an income stream. Sometimes you are allowed a hobby that is just yours, a small private doorway back to wonder, and nothing more is required.