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Inspiration for those seeking it, understanding for those needing it, guidance for those open to it. Blessed Be )O(

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As we journey through life we learn lessons that we wish we could share with the world and now Facebook has created a vehicle for us to do this. This is my way of giving back to the Universe and the world. Please feel free to Share any posts, like my page, ask questions and give your opinion on anything I post. We may not always see eye to eye but I will defend to the death your right to your own

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23/04/2026

Earth, air, and fire, but no water... from a deck dedicated to one of the creatures of the oceans... interesting...

𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝟭: 𝗣𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗦𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀
You have a fresh idea or a bit of news that is currently buzzing in your head like a live wire. This energy is incredibly curious and sharp, asking you to look at a stale situation with a brand new set of eyes. You are likely in the "research and development" phase of something exciting, and your brain is working double time to slice through any confusion or nonsense that has been holding you back.

Just be careful that your excitement does not turn into unnecessary bluntness. Your clarity is a gift, but remember that not everyone is moving at your speed right now. Use this intellectual momentum to gather your facts and prepare your pitch, but try to keep your delivery as kind as it is clever. Focus on the data and trust that your curiosity is leading you exactly where you need to go.

𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝟮: 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗪𝗮𝗻𝗱𝘀
You are being called to step into your most charismatic and unapologetic self. The Queen of Wands does not wait for a formal invitation to lead; she simply radiates a warmth and a vision that people naturally want to follow. You have a creative fire burning right now that is meant to be shared, so stop dimming your light to make other people feel more comfortable.

This is the perfect moment to take charge of a project or finally put yourself out there in a big way. Your intuition is peaking, and you have the social grace to navigate any friction with ease. Trust that you have the stamina and the passion to see this through. Focus on your own magnetic energy and let your enthusiasm be the engine that drives your success.

𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝟯: 𝗞𝗻𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗣𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗹𝗲𝘀
There is a serious, dedicated energy around you right now that values results over hype. You are being asked to settle into the "doing" part of the process, which requires a level of patience that might feel a bit foreign if you are used to instant gratification. This is the energy of the craftsman who knows that true quality is built through consistent, daily action rather than a single burst of luck.

Do not mistake a quiet period or a slower pace for a lack of progress in your life. You are currently laying the bricks for your future security, and cutting corners now will only create a structural issue further down the track. Stay dedicated to your routine and keep the promises you have made to yourself regarding your long term goals. Focus on the practical details and trust that your steady persistence is accumulating into something substantial and incredibly solid.

22/04/2026

Lesson 243: Grief is just love that has nowhere to go

Some people are terrified of grief. They treat it like an infection that needs to be cleared up with a quick course of antibiotics. We are so often told to move on, to find closure, to get back to normal as fast as possible. But grief is not a problem to be solved or a phase to rush through.

Grief is simply the heavy, physical manifestation of love for someone or something that is no longer in front of you. When you try to push it down, ignore it, or rush it out the door, you are just suffocating that love. You don't ever truly "get over" a monumental loss.

You just slowly build a bigger life around the crater it left behind. Let yourself feel the weight of it without putting a time limit on the sadness. It hurts deeply because you loved deeply, and that is a beautiful thing to have experienced.

21/04/2026

From the deep he rises, bringing with him all the knowledge and mysteries we cannot fathom.

20/04/2026

Lesson #242: You are allowed to outgrow the pot you were planted in

There is a heavy guilt attached to outgrowing people and places you once loved. You might realise that the old conversations feel draining, or that the dynamic only works if you agree to play small. So you try to shrink yourself down to fit back into the old mold, terrified of being called arrogant or cold for changing.

But loyalty should never require you to stunt your own evolution. Sometimes, to save the love you have for a relationship, you have to accept it from a distance. You cannot force a size ten foot back into a size six shoe without breaking bones, and you cannot force your expanded self back into a life that no longer fits.

You can deeply love a space, be incredibly grateful for what it taught you, and still acknowledge that you have gotten too big to live there anymore. Walking away is not a betrayal; it is just biology.

17/04/2026

Lesson #241: Healing is not a straight line upwards

We expect healing to look like a financial chart where the line only ever goes up. You do a bit of therapy, read a book, set a boundary, and assume the sadness is permanently cured. Then a random Tuesday hits, you find yourself crying in the shower over an old wound, and you think you have completely failed. You haven't. Healing is a spiral, not a staircase.

You are going to revisit the same issues, the same insecurities, and the same grief, but the difference is you are viewing them from a higher vantage point. It might feel like you are back at square one, but you have an entirely different toolkit now. The fact that it hurts again does not mean the medicine isn't working.

Stop treating a bad day like it is a relapse that deletes all your progress. You are allowed to be messy, triggered, and tired even after years of doing the work. A moment of darkness does not cancel out the light you have built.

16/04/2026

Here we go. Remember I did say it was interesting...

𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝟭: 𝗘𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗖𝘂𝗽𝘀
You have reached that quiet, heavy point where you realise that staying in your current situation is actually more painful than the fear of leaving it. This is not about a dramatic blow up or a bridge burning. It is the mature decision to walk away from something that is no longer emotionally viable, even if you still have a bit of love left for it.

Trust that you are not being "quitter" by choosing to move on. You are simply acknowledging that you have outgrown this container and your energy is needed elsewhere. The walk might feel lonely at first as you head into the dark, but you are moving toward a version of yourself that is much more authentic and whole. Focus on the horizon rather than looking back at the empty cups you are leaving behind.

𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝟮: 𝗘𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗪𝗮𝗻𝗱𝘀
The period of waiting and wondering is officially over because everything is about to happen at once. This card brings a sudden surge of momentum and rapid fire communication that might leave you feeling a little breathless. If you have been feeling stagnant or stuck in a holding pattern, consider this the universe finally hitting the fast forward button on your current plans.

The challenge here is to stay focused so you do not get overwhelmed by the sheer volume of information or opportunities coming your way. You need to be ready to act quickly and trust your initial gut feelings without overthinking the logistics. Use this burst of speed to clear your inbox and make those big moves you have been putting off. The wind is finally in your sails, so make sure you are steering in the right direction.

𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝟯: 𝗡𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗣𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗹𝗲𝘀
You have arrived in a season of absolute independence and refined luxury that you have worked incredibly hard to create for yourself. This energy is all about the "solo flex," where you can finally sit in your own garden and enjoy the fruits of your labour without needing anyone else to validate your success. You are your own best company and your own most reliable provider right now.

Do not feel guilty about enjoying the finer things or wanting to spend time in your own private sanctuary. You have earned this level of security and poise through your own discipline and persistence. Allow yourself to be a little bit "high maintenance" for a change. Focus on the sensual details of your life that bring you comfort and pride, and own your status as the sovereign of your own world.

15/04/2026

Lesson 240: You cannot hate yourself into a version you love

You have likely spent the last decade using a whip to motivate yourself. We have a bizarre collective delusion that if we are just cruel enough to our own reflection, we will eventually guilt ourselves into being better, smarter, or more successful. You act like self-loathing is a necessary fuel for self-improvement. But it is a completely broken strategy.

You cannot bully yourself into a state of peace. If punishing yourself actually worked, you would be absolutely perfect by now. The constant internal critic does not make you sharper or more disciplined; it just makes you exhausted, anxious, and terrified of your own mind. You are constantly bracing for an attack from the person who is supposed to be protecting you.

Growth that comes from a place of disgust will always feel unstable. True, lasting change only sticks when it comes from a place of self-respect. You have to lay down the weapons. You do not need to be flawlessly in love with every single part of yourself right this second, but you do need to declare a ceasefire.

14/04/2026

Dragonfae again this week. What's in here? I took a peak and it's... interesting...

13/04/2026

Lesson #239: Closure is an inside job

We have been sold a massive lie that in order to heal from a heartbreak or a betrayal, we need one final, cinematic conversation. You are probably waiting for an apology, an explanation, or some kind of magical combination of words from the person who hurt you that will suddenly make it all make sense. You are acting like the person who broke you is the only one holding the glue to put you back together.

But most of the time, the people who cause the damage are entirely incapable of cleaning it up. If you wait for them to give you closure, you will be sitting in the waiting room of your own life forever. They likely do not have the answers you are looking for, and even if they did, it would not erase the reality of what happened. You are outsourcing your peace to the very source of your pain.

Closure is not something you receive; it is something you decide. It is the moment you accept that the story is over, even if the ending was terribly written. You do not need their permission, their remorse, or their understanding to walk away. You have the power to turn the page and close the book all by yourself.

09/04/2026

Sometimes you need a gentle nudge and other times you need a loving reality check from the universe.

𝟭: 𝗘𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗦𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀
Sometimes the walls we build to protect ourselves end up becoming the very things keeping us trapped. You might be feeling a bit painted into a corner right now where every option looks like a dead end or a bad idea. It is incredibly easy to convince yourself that you are totally stuck when you spend all your time staring at the obstacles instead of the exit signs.

The beautiful truth here is that the cage is actually unlocked and the door is sitting wide open. You just need to shift your gaze a fraction and realise that you have had the power to walk away this entire time. Focus your energy on questioning the stories you tell yourself about what you cannot do because chances are you just made them up.

𝟮: 𝗙𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗖𝘂𝗽𝘀
It is perfectly okay to feel a bit flat about how things have panned out recently. There is a distinct sense of mourning a situation that did not deliver the magic you were hoping for and brushing past that disappointment helps absolutely no one. Letting yourself feel the sting of a letdown is actually a vital part of clearing the air so you can move forward with a clean slate.

Once you have had your moment of frustration, it is time to slowly turn your attention back to the blessings that are still sitting right in front of you. Not everything was lost in the wash and there is a surprising amount of love and support waiting for you to simply acknowledge it. Try to direct your focus towards the people who always show up for you rather than the ones who flaked out.

3: Knight of Swords
A sudden flash of clarity is about to hit you and it carries enough momentum to knock you completely off your feet. This is the kind of energy where the fog lifts instantly and you know exactly what needs to be said and who needs to hear it. You might feel a massive urge to charge ahead and cut through all the lingering nonsense that has been slowing down your progress.

Harnessing this sharp intellect is brilliant but try to remember that not everyone operates at your lightning speed. Delivery is everything when you are bringing the truth so take a quick breath before you drop any heavy revelations on the group chat. Channel this brilliant drive into tackling a complex problem you have been avoiding rather than using it to start an unnecessary debate.

07/04/2026

Sorry for the late post, everyone! You know what to do. 😉

06/04/2026

Lesson 238: Let them misunderstand you

There is a specific kind of exhaustion that comes from trying to manage everyone else's perception of you. You might twist yourself into knots trying to over-explain your boundaries or ensure that nobody is mad at you. You want to be the "good guy" in every single room you enter.

But the hard truth is that you are inevitably going to be the villain in someone else's story. You cannot control the lens through which other people view you. Their perception is filtered through their own triggers, their own unhealed wounds, and their own limitations. If someone is determined to misunderstand your intentions, they will absolutely find a way to do it.

Put down the PR clipboard. You are not the public relations manager for other people's opinions. Let them be wrong about you. The peace you find when you stop trying to convince people of your goodness is worth more than their validation ever was.

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