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As we journey through life we learn lessons that we wish we could share with the world and now Facebook has created a vehicle for us to do this. This is my way of giving back to the Universe and the world. Please feel free to Share any posts, like my page, ask questions and give your opinion on anything I post. We may not always see eye to eye but I will defend to the death your right to your own opinion/beliefs. Any pictures not taken by me have been sourced from Google images or pages I am a member of. If any images need to be removed, a request from the owner of said image will be required prior to its removal.

Lesson  #233 - There is no perfect choice so just pick oneYou are likely standing at a crossroads right now, paralysed b...
16/03/2026

Lesson #233 - There is no perfect choice so just pick one

You are likely standing at a crossroads right now, paralysed by the fear of making the wrong move. You are waiting for a burning bush or a handwritten note from the universe to tell you which path guarantees success and zero heartbreak. You are wasting your life waiting for certainty that is never going to arrive.

The truth is that there is no "right" path hidden behind door number two. Both paths will have magic and both paths will have mud. The mistake is not picking the wrong road; the mistake is standing still at the intersection until your legs give out.

Stop trying to outsmart your future. Make a choice based on the best data and gut instinct you have right now and then commit to making it work. You have the power to make any path the right one simply by walking it with conviction.

Guess who has a new website!
13/03/2026

Guess who has a new website!

Lesson  #232 - Be brave enough to suck at something newWe stop playing when we grow up because we are terrified of looki...
13/03/2026

Lesson #232 - Be brave enough to suck at something new

We stop playing when we grow up because we are terrified of looking stupid. You stick to the things you are already good at because your ego hates the feeling of clumsiness. But that means your world gets smaller and smaller every year.

The joy of being a beginner is one of the purest feelings available. It is the freedom of having zero expectations. Who cares if the painting is ugly? Who cares if you trip over the dance steps? The point is not the mastery the point is the experience.

Go be a disastrously bad surfer. Write terrible poetry. Bake a cake that collapses. The willingness to be bad at something is the price of entry for a life that feels alive.

๐Ÿญ. ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑYou have been feeling a bit boxed in lately, as if you are living inside a set of rules or expectations that ...
12/03/2026

๐Ÿญ. ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ
You have been feeling a bit boxed in lately, as if you are living inside a set of rules or expectations that do not actually belong to you. This card acknowledges that mental or emotional cage you have built to keep yourself safe, but it also reminds you that the door has never actually been locked. You have been waiting for someone to let you out when you are the only one with the key in your pocket.

Gently acknowledge the ways you have been playing small to avoid making waves or to stay comfortable. It is time to look at the bars of this cage and realise they are mostly made of old habits and "shoulds" that no longer apply to the person you are becoming. Focus on what it would feel like to simply step out into the open air without asking for anyone's permission first.

๐Ÿฎ. ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต
There is a quiet, steady endurance at play in your life right now that is far more powerful than any loud display of force. You have been navigating a tricky situation with a level of grace and patience that is truly impressive, even if you feel tired behind the scenes. This is the strength of a flower growing through concrete; it does not fight the rock, it just persists until it finds the sun.

Trust that your current softness is not a weakness. By staying grounded and refusing to be hardened by external pressures, you are winning a much deeper battle. Focus on maintaining that internal warmth and keep moving forward with that gentle persistence you have cultivated. You are far more resilient than you give yourself credit for.

๐Ÿฏ. ๐—•๐—น๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—บ
The winter phase of your life is officially over and you are being invited to open up and show your true colours. This is a moment of pure, unapologetic expansion where you stop preparing and start actually being. You have done the deep work in the dark, and now the environment is finally right for you to flourish in a way that feels effortless and beautiful.

Do not try to hide your growth because you are afraid it might be too much for others to handle. This is your time to take up space and radiate your natural energy without filter or apology. Focus on the joy of this opening and allow yourself to be seen in your full, vibrant reality. You are exactly where you are supposed to be.

๐Ÿฐ. ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ธ
You are being reminded that you have a direct line to the universe and your ability to manifest change is peaking right now. This is not about tricks or illusions; it is about the raw, elemental power of your intentions and how they shape the world around you. You are being called to step back into your role as a co-creator and start directing your energy with more purpose.

Stop doubting the "coincidences" and start paying attention to the synchronicities popping up in your daily life. When you align your actions with your spirit, things start to click into place with a speed that can feel a bit uncanny. Focus on the rituals and habits that make you feel connected to your power and trust that your magic is very real and very present.

11/03/2026

Hey peeps. Just a heads up, I am currently in Thailand so if I'm slow to reply to booking requests, that's why :)

Lesson  #231 - The candle does not lose its light by lighting anotherComparison is a thief that steals your joy the seco...
11/03/2026

Lesson #231 - The candle does not lose its light by lighting another

Comparison is a thief that steals your joy the second you see someone else winning. You might feel a pinch of panic when a friend gets the promotion or the ring or the break you wanted. It feels like there is less available for you. But the universe is not a pie with a limited number of slices.

Their success is not your failure. It is actually proof that it is possible. If they can do it, the door is open. Jealousy creates a scarcity mindset that shrinks your world. Celebration creates an abundance mindset that expands it.

Clap for your friends. Cheer for them loudly. When you help light their candle the whole room gets brighter and you can see your own path more clearly.

The energy around this one is gentler and more subtle, so should be interesting to see what the deal is here...
10/03/2026

The energy around this one is gentler and more subtle, so should be interesting to see what the deal is here...

Lesson  #230 - Rest is a requirement, not a rewardYou have likely been taught that you have to earn your sleep. We treat...
09/03/2026

Lesson #230 - Rest is a requirement, not a reward

You have likely been taught that you have to earn your sleep. We treat rest like a dessert that we are only allowed to have after we have eaten all our vegetables and finished every task on the list. But the list never ends. If you wait until you are "done" to rest, you will never rest.

Your phone battery does not have to apologise for needing a charge. It just shuts down. You are a biological machine that requires downtime to repair and process. Pushing through the exhaustion does not make you a hero it makes you inefficient.

Stop viewing sleep and leisure as "lazy". It is the fuel that makes the work possible. You do not need to justify your existence with productivity. Go lie down. The emails will still be there in the morning.

Lesson  #229 โ€“ Stop falling in love with potentialWe have a dangerous habit of dating the future version of a person ins...
06/03/2026

Lesson #229 โ€“ Stop falling in love with potential

We have a dangerous habit of dating the future version of a person instead of the reality standing in front of us. You might be staying in a situation because you can see their gold. You see who they could be if they just went to therapy or grew up or stopped drinking. But you cannot build a life on a foundation that does not exist yet.

Potential is a hologram. It is beautiful and shimmering but you cannot hold it. You have to look at the data you have right now. If nothing changed, would you still want to be here?

It is not your job to be the rehabilitation centre for someone elseโ€™s soul. Love them for who they are today or let them go to find their own path. Waiting for them to change is a recipe for resentment.

And the honesty just comes flooding in with these three.๐Ÿญ. ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—š๐—ผYou are being invited to stop gripping the handles ...
05/03/2026

And the honesty just comes flooding in with these three.

๐Ÿญ. ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—š๐—ผ
You are being invited to stop gripping the handles of a situation that has already reached its natural conclusion. This energy is about the quiet relief that comes when you finally stop trying to fix, change, or control something that is simply meant to leave your life. It is not a failure; it is a necessary clearing so you can actually breathe again.

Trust that the space you are creating is not a vacuum, even if it feels a bit empty right now. By releasing the heavy weight of expectations or past versions of yourself, you are making room for something far more aligned to enter. Focus on the lightness in your chest as you let the branches go and see who you are without that constant struggle.

๐Ÿฎ. ๐—ฆ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜†
Everyone else might be racing toward a finish line, but you are being encouraged to embrace the pace of the tortoise. This card suggests that your growth is happening exactly as it should, even if it feels frustratingly gradual to your logical mind. True, lasting transformation is rarely a lightning bolt; it is a series of small, consistent steps.

Stop comparing your middle chapter to someone elseโ€™s highlight reel or rushing the process just to feel productive. There is a deep, grounded wisdom in moving slowly and ensuring your foundation is solid before you build anything higher. Focus on the quality of your current journey rather than the speed of your arrival.

๐Ÿฏ. ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต
The time for pretty lies and convenient half-truths is officially over. This energy is sharp, clear, and incredibly liberating, asking you to look at your life with total objectivity. You are being called to speak your mind and acknowledge the facts of a situation, even if the reality feels a bit confronting at first.

Clarity is a gift, but it requires the courage to stop squinting. Once you name the truth of what you are feeling or what you are seeing, the path forward becomes remarkably obvious. Focus on the integrity of your own voice and trust that the truth will always set you on the right path, regardless of the initial discomfort.

Lesson  #228 โ€“ Your hyper-independence could be a trauma responseThere is a badge of honour we wear for doing it all alo...
04/03/2026

Lesson #228 โ€“ Your hyper-independence could be a trauma response

There is a badge of honour we wear for doing it all alone. You might feel a spike of pride when you refuse help or carry the entire load without complaining. But that is not strength. That is a defence mechanism you built when you learned that relying on other people was unsafe.

You are exhausted because you are trying to be a village of one. The refusal to let anyone support you is actually a form of control. It keeps you safe from disappointment but it also keeps you isolated from connection. People actually want to help you if you would just unclench your jaw and let them.

Put the weight down. Asking for support does not mean you are weak or incapable. It just means you are human. You were never designed to carry the weight of the world without a team.

Love this theory ๐Ÿ’™
03/03/2026

Love this theory ๐Ÿ’™

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