21/01/2026
This popped in memories from six years ago.
All I know is that I am feeling her presence more than ever. A warmth wrapped around me. Something she couldn't give me in life.
Have you had any conversations like this? Or thought about it for yourself or a loved one?
'Afterlife. The topic of conversation with Mum yesterday.
We've always been able to talk about death. What was interesting was when she moved into the care facility, it was confronting at first because you are faced with death on a daily basis.
We knew logically when she went in that this was the last stage of her life. But actually experiencing it is another whole kettle of fish.
Yet, we can still talk about what it means. How it is affecting her when your dear friends die. The sadness and loss that surrounds her for a while. Then her loss of memory kicks in to protect her.
The necessary paperwork is in place to help us through when it gets to that point. We have been able to discuss this with her what her wishes are that we can honour with love, grace and dignity.
Then out of the blue, she starts questioning the afterlife. Is there one? If there isn't what was the meaning of her life?
Like a fear had crept in keeping her alive. However, she boldly told me that she isn't ready to go yet. There is still life to be lived, even if it is in her four walls.
So much appreciation, honour and respect for these experiences and discussions about life, death and age.'
(an old photo of us)