02/04/2025
I so feel this. In my own mama-journey and in caring for you and your family. This has come up soooooo much the past few weeks. Mamas are out there killing it. Freaking superheroes. And drowning in the judgement.
There is no perfect. It’s social media fiction. And the mamas who are rocking it most and have the least regrets (cuz we all have them) are the ones who chose to listen to their own gut and chose the people who supported them. Mama you are so much for your family. Know that your intuition, your wisdom, your feeling about what works for your family is brilliant and deserves to be heard by you and all who support you.
Sometimes when I am taking care of kiddo I’m also helping ground mama. It’s why I love when I get to adjust the whole family. As my kids would say “co-regulation.” Which really just means we help get everyone connected. But first mama listen and trust your own inner voice and feeling. It’s powerful beyond measure.