03/30/2026
I worked for years in walk-in clinics. Over 100 patients a week.
I saw the same pattern, over and over. Women at midlife, coming in with 10 different symptoms. Leaving with a diagnosis that said "not feeling well." A sleeping pill. A "you're just stressed."
The symptom burden that starts at midlife is epidemiologic. Every provider doing this volume sees it. We just weren't given the time, the training, or the billing structure to name it.
I was part of that problem. And my solution was to leave. Because I had to do it right or not at all.
The system gives primary care 15 minutes. There is one province in this country with a billing code that supports the time menopause care actually takes. One.
So the women who get good care are paying for it. And the women who can't pay stay in the loop.
That's not a gap. That's a system that was never built for women at midlife.
I left because I couldn't be the provider she needed in the time I was given. I refuse to accept that's the best we can offer.
Do it right or not at all