02/04/2026
Lego 🖤 is right on track …
3 / 3 / 3 is a rule of thumb for how horses adapt to change (a move)
🗓️ 3 Days 🟰 Decompression & survival mode
The first few days are all about orientation and safety.
What you often see:
👀 Heightened alertness, watchfulness
👀 Reduced appetite or picky eating
👀 Clingy or withdrawn behavior
👀 Gut motility can be a bit off
👀 Nervous system is running more sympathetic (fight/flight)
What helps:
♥️ Consistency, quiet handling
♥️ Low expectations
♥️ Lots of turnout if safe
♥️ Familiar forage and routines
Think: “Where am I and am I safe?”
NO BODYWORK IN THIS TIMEFRAME ‼️
🗓️ 3 Weeks 🟰 Testing & settling
By about 2–3 weeks, the horse starts to exhale… and sometimes get opinionated.
What you might notice:
👀 Personality shows up more (sass, curiosity, playfulness)
👀 Herd dynamics become clearer
👀 Training “issues” may appear (they weren’t gone just hidden)
👀 Digestion, sleep, and movement patterns normalize
What helps:
♥️ Gentle structure
♥️ Clear boundaries
♥️ Light, positive training
♥️ Bodywork is often very effective here (hello nervous system integration)
Think: “Okay… I think I understand how this place works.”
🗓️ 3 Months 🟰 True adaptation
At around 90 days, the horse is usually fully oriented.
What’s happening:
👀 Nervous system regulation improves
👀 Muscles and posture adapt to footing, terrain, workload
👀 Stronger bonds with humans and herd
👀 The “real horse” is now consistently present
This is when:
✅ Training decisions are most accurate
✅ Saddle fit, bodywork patterns, and soundness assessments make more sense
✅ Long-term behavior becomes predictable
Think: “This is home.”
Note:
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This isn’t just behavioral — it’s neurological, hormonal, muscular, and digestive adaptation. Horses are prey animals, so their systems take time to truly stand down.
And of course:
➡️ Trauma history, age, herd setup, transport stress, and handling quality can shorten or lengthen each phase.
➡️ Sensitive horses often need more time, not more pressure