12/22/2025
When a child interrupts constantly, most adults assume it’s impulsivity, rudeness, or poor self-control.
Often, it’s none of those.
For many kids with ADHD, autism, learning disabilities, or weak executive functioning, interrupting is a working memory issue - not a behavior issue.
Their brain doesn’t trust that the thought will still be there in 10 seconds.
So they blurt because forgetting feels worse than interrupting.
This is especially true for kids with:
• weak working memory
• slow processing speed
• auditory processing differences
• anxiety around losing their train of thought
Telling them to “wait their turn” without giving their brain a way to hold the thought is setting them up to fail.
Working memory strengthens, the interrupting often fades on its own - without constant correction, shame, or power struggles.
This is what it looks like to address root causes instead of managing behaviors.
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