02/26/2026
The sun is shining — even when the clouds are low. 💜
I’m sharing this not just as a mom, but as someone in recovery, and as someone who now understands how critical awareness and access to treatment truly are.
In Canada, approximately 2.9 million people are affected by eating disorders, including an estimated 1.4 million youth. Yet only 1 in 4 individuals receives appropriate treatment. Eating disorders also carry one of the highest mortality rates of any mental illness.
When my daughter Tori told me at 14 that she was struggling with an eating disorder, I was only eight months sober myself. I had been fighting for my own life through alcoholism — and suddenly my child was fighting for hers.
What I learned very quickly is this: eating disorders are serious, complex, and life-threatening mental illnesses. They are not phases. They are not attention-seeking. And they do not discriminate.
I also learned how hard it is to access proper care — especially for youth. We were told she was “too young” for certain programs. We were left searching, calling, pleading. Meanwhile, she was binging, purging, and self-harming to cope with pain she didn’t have the words for.
No family should have to fight that hard for help.
Recovery from an eating disorder is not just about food. It involves the entire family. It requires structured treatment, medical monitoring, therapy, and relentless support. It requires education. It requires removing shame.
By the grace of God and after many assessments, Tori was accepted into a youth eating disorder program. She worked incredibly hard. She chose recovery. And today she is living proof that early intervention and proper treatment save lives.
But I share this because not every family knows where to turn. Not every youth gets access in time. And stigma still keeps too many silent.
If you are a parent — talk to your kids.
If you are struggling — reach out.
If you are in recovery — your experience matters more than you know.
Eating disorders are real. Recovery is possible. And we must continue advocating for better access, earlier support, and open conversations.
The sun is shining — even when the clouds are low. 💜
This is her today. In recovery, healthy and happy!!