22/11/2025
Have you ever overcome a deeply embedded fear?
For me it was sailing across an ocean…
However much I have always enjoyed sailing it was always relatively close to shore, pottering around the Mediterranean under blue skies with a beautiful anchorage to look forward to.
Well, 18 months ago I reluctantly signed up to cross the Atlantic on a friend’s boat as part of the Arc+ rally. My husband had done it in 2022 with the same boat with an all-male crew but this time we were to be two couples. This was going to be my BIG LIFE CHALLENGE. Overcome that lifelong fear of crossing an ocean (in my case the Atlantic in particular as I’m convinced that I was involved with the Titanic in a past life - but that’s a story for another day!).
So here I am, on leg 2 of the two part crossing (we’ve completed Gran Canaria to Cape Verde, and are now doing Cape Verde to Grenada) and I can safely say I’m loving it! Even those dark lonely night watches bring peace, beauty and a magnificent night sky. My favourite moment is seeing light beginning to appear on the eastern horizon and knowing another day is dawning…
I’m revelling in the rhythms of the sea, the mesmerising blue, the vastness and
the emptiness…just you, the boat, the water, and the wind.
We’ve also been lucky enough to have some beautiful wildlife encounters - dolphins, pseudo-orcas, turtles, and even a whale. It has been a privilege to spend time with them in their ocean world.
We’ve even managed a mid-ocean swim at 4000m depth when it was calm as a millpond, warm and inviting. Who’d have known?
And on a final spiritual note, I’d consulted my pendulum many times to check whether this adventure was in my highest interest when I was stuck in my deepest fears - and it always said yes. So I trusted it. But when I had a big blip back in May my beautiful friend came back into my life at just the right moment and gave me a profound healing, releasing those visceral fears, and I thank her forever for that release which enabled me to approach the project with more faith & positivity than I could ever have imagined. ✨
Do you have a similar story?