22/03/2026
It’s not always obvious what is driving or what sits beneath our behaviours or habits and it can be really easy to fall into patterns of judgement or self-criticism, seeing these as 'bad' or something to get rid of.
But the reason we often return to them time and time again is because they serve a purpose, they help us to cope when things too hard to sit with.
This isn't to say that they dont sometimes come with consequences.
Working with a therapist can offer a space to get curious and explore what's going on beneath the surface at your own pace, without shame.