My Psychological Wellness

My Psychological Wellness Paula Slater MSc Psych GMBPsS:
Helping adults and children discover the very best version of themselves. This is where I come in.

Since 2004, my mission has been to help and empower adults and children to overcome their most challenging obstacles and start living happier and healthier lifestyles. My extensive experience means that I'm fully equipped to guide, support and assist you in building the life you clearly deserve. I have a BA HONS Degree in Children, Schools and Families and have completed an MA in Psychology. My qualifications don't stop there, though; you can view them on the FAQ tab! I aim to create a life balance that prioritises your well-being and celebrates all aspects of your true self. It's time to start nurturing your body and soul again!


Children:
I have worked in education for nearly 20 years helping primary school children by giving them the tools they need to succeed, not only in education but socially and emotionally. I do this by empowering them to understand themselves better, including how their brain works and how it influences their behaviours and choices. Once children are armed with this knowledge, they can use the tools provided to improve their mental health and well-being and ultimately become happier and more confident. Adults:
I have a wealth of experience in dealing with the aftermath of abuse, domestic violence, coercive control, grief, addiction, depression, life coaching, su***de, mental health and well-being and relationships. It isn't always easy to just walk away, tell someone or move on; we first need to be able to accept what has happened, reflect, decide and then take steps to heal. I can work with you to help bring your mind and body back into equilibrium through various therapeutic techniques. I am not a counsellor, so my approach is not linked to any kind of theorist or intervention. Instead, I listen, I hear you, I discover what motivates you and then together, we explore new goals and ambitions in a realistic and time-sensitive manner. I will help you to understand yourself better and learn to love who you are. Signposting:
If for any reason, I feel that you/they require more specialised support, I will signpost you/them to the relevant services and recommend that you seek their help. My role is not to replace any required specialised service but to compliment them by motivating you/them to be inspired.


You've come this far, you've accepted that you or your child needs some extra support - well done! Now allow me to help guide you/them through to a more fulfilling stage of life, after all, we only get one chance at it so let's get it right! All I ask, is that you trust the process.

10/02/2026

We are so lucky to have access to an inspiring doctor who truly understands menopause.

I have immense respect for Dr Craven’s expertise and dedication. If you’re menopausal or navigating this stage of life, I highly recommend watching this video 👇👏

Thought i would have a go...I love it! 😍
10/02/2026

Thought i would have a go...

I love it! 😍

Some people experience the world more intensely than others 😓They notice shifts in mood, pick up on atmosphere, and can ...
09/02/2026

Some people experience the world more intensely than others 😓

They notice shifts in mood, pick up on atmosphere, and can feel drained by noise or emotional intensity.

📖 In psychology, this is often described as being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), something commonly seen in neurodivergent individuals, including people with ADHD or autistic traits.

It isn’t something that needs fixing, but without understanding it, sensitivity can start to feel overwhelming.

Understanding your sensitivity can change how you relate to yourself, and how you care for your energy.

👉 If this resonates and you’d like support, you can find more information or get in touch via my website:

www.MyPsychologicalWellness.co.uk

05/02/2026

We all need someone to talk to. 🗣️

But too often, we’ve forgotten how to really listen.

It’s natural to say, “I know how you feel, I’ve been there.” But sometimes, in an effort to prove that we know how they feel, we turn the conversation into our own story, and for the next half an hour they have to listen to our woes. 😬

Then, when they try to tell us something else, we do it again! This can leave the other person feeling as though there is no point saying anything more.

The result? They leave feeling unheard… and lonelier than before. 💔

Here’s how to truly listen:
✨ Give them space; it’s about them, not you.
✨ Paraphrase (repeat back to them) what they say; show you’re paying attention.
✨ Ask if they want advice, or just to be heard.
✨ Nod, make eye contact, embrace silence; it all matters.
✨ Check in later. A simple “thinking of you” goes a long way.

Listening isn’t just hearing words.

It’s being present.

Sometimes that’s the greatest gift you can give. 💛

And remember. When someone trusts you with their vulnerability, it is an honour.

Today is Mind’s Time to Talk Day 💙If talking is tough, here’s a reminder:You don’t need the right words.You don’t need a...
05/02/2026

Today is Mind’s Time to Talk Day 💙

If talking is tough, here’s a reminder:

You don’t need the right words.
You don’t need a solution.
You don’t even need to know where to start.

Talking can be as simple as saying, “I’m not sure how I’m feeling, but I don’t want to hold it on my own.”

That conversation with a friend, a loved one, or a professional can be the first step towards feeling a bit less stuck.

Hello, for those who don’t know me, I’m Paula 👋I offer one-to-one talking therapy for adults and children.I work integra...
04/02/2026

Hello, for those who don’t know me, I’m Paula 👋

I offer one-to-one talking therapy for adults and children.

I work integratively, tailoring therapy to each client rather than using a one-size-fits-all approach.

My work draws on established psychological models, including CBT, person-centred therapy, developmental and psychodynamic thinking.

Through therapy, I support people in building confidence, developing effective coping strategies, and working through challenges so they can feel more balanced and well in everyday life.

If you’d like to know more or see whether working together might be a good fit, you can find me via my website:

www.MyPsychologicalWellness.co.uk

Rest guilt is wild.You can be exhausted, horizontal, and still feel like you’re somehow doing something wrong.Rest isn’t...
02/02/2026

Rest guilt is wild.

You can be exhausted, horizontal, and still feel like you’re somehow doing something wrong.

Rest isn’t something you take instead of being productive. It’s what makes it possible for you to be productive in the first place!

You made it to the end of January 🤗It was a tough one! However, I made the most of the weather. Instead of complaining a...
30/01/2026

You made it to the end of January 🤗

It was a tough one! However, I made the most of the weather. Instead of complaining about it, I embraced it!

As the temperature drops, it’s tempting to hibernate, but there’s something powerful about embracing the cold. ❄️

Cool air can sharpen our focus, boost energy, and gently nudge us back into the present moment. A brisk walk, rosy cheeks, slower breathing, and a sense of being fully awake in your body can do wonders for your mood and mental clarity.

Cold weather invites us to simplify: fewer distractions, quieter days, more intention. It’s a reminder that discomfort isn’t always something to avoid; it can be a teacher, helping build resilience and appreciation for warmth, rest, and connection. 🧣☕️

So bundle up, step outside, and let winter work its quiet magic on your mind. Your mental health might just thank you for it. 💙

A lot of people think they’re bad at motivating themselves, but motivation can’t be forced 🤔It comes along when your bas...
28/01/2026

A lot of people think they’re bad at motivating themselves, but motivation can’t be forced 🤔

It comes along when your basic psychological needs are being met.

Psychology talks about three core needs:

✅ Competence (feeling capable) – believing you can actually do the thing
✅ Autonomy (feeling in control) – having choice, not pressure
✅ Relatedness (feeling supported) – knowing you’re not doing it on your own

When one of those needs is low, motivation drops - not because you lack discipline, but because you’re wired to function better when these things are in place.

If you’re struggling to get going, check which need isn’t being met.

If you’ve started the year feeling exhausted, stretched thin, or like you’ve already used up all your energy… that’s bur...
26/01/2026

If you’ve started the year feeling exhausted, stretched thin, or like you’ve already used up all your energy… that’s burnout calling 😮‍💨

It creeps in when you’ve been carrying too much for too long - work, family, pressure, the leftovers of December - until even small things feel bigger than they should.

♥️This isn’t you being weak or unmotivated.
💛 This is your system needing a breather.

Talking things through can help you understand what’s draining you and what needs to change so you can feel like yourself again.

www.MyPsychologicalWellness.co.uk

You can care about someone without rescuing them 🛟It’s natural to want to fix things for the people you love, especially...
23/01/2026

You can care about someone without rescuing them 🛟

It’s natural to want to fix things for the people you love, especially when you can see they’re struggling.

But when you jump in every time, you end up carrying their feelings and their responsibilities.

❌ Support doesn’t always mean solving.

Sometimes it means standing beside them while they figure things out in their own way, at their own pace.

That’s how people grow. And it’s how you protect your own energy, too.

Communication isn’t just what you say, it’s the state you’re in when you say it 👇A few reminders that help more than peo...
21/01/2026

Communication isn’t just what you say, it’s the state you’re in when you say it 👇

A few reminders that help more than people realise:

✅ Take a breath before you respond
✅ Slow your voice down a little
✅ Notice if you’re reacting from stress, not intention
✅ You’re allowed to pause or come back to the conversation later

Most conversations improve when you’re calmer, not quicker.

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