19/02/2026
Hi beautiful friend, welcome to this space!
💡 Today I bring you a perspective that may create some space for reflection within you.
👥 How do we foster secure attachment within whilst relating with those around us, with our loved ones, with our communities, with the systems around us and with the systems that we get to shape and create?
Here’s a little tip to guide you to discern your own relationships.
Create two columns, and separate:
🚦Which interactions in your life put you on the edge of your seat and cause you to shrink and what interactions welcome you to sit back and show up fully as the most authentic and goofy version of you?
If you’re wanting to dive deeper, you can write next to each interaction, what sensations come up within you (whether you shrink, smile more, ‘armour up’ or people please/fawn).
This can be tough work. Be kind to yourself, and maybe offer some love to the parts of you that may carry shame. I invite you to give yourself a big hug, by placing your arms around you and saying to yourself “I am here with you right now, you are safe”.
Sending you compassion and gentleness,
Maria Venusa 💚🙏🏻🌱