02/09/2021
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Sharing a sad sad story today...my heart aches for this family
Social media has played a big part in kids’ lives especially this pandemic. It was/is their outlet, the way they communicate with friends and connect. But social media can be very dangerous.
Please...if your kids have social media platforms, have ground rules, talk about limits, about frequent check ins on what they are doing, who they are talking to. There are people out there who know how to reach young minds and manipulate them. Some mistakes cannot be reversed, some cannot be taken back...
As I sit here tonight, I think about how wonderful yet difficult parenting is, how scary it is! Sometimes you do everything right but still something happens.
Yes we need to raise our kids to be independent, we need to raise them to hold their own. But still it is our job to make sure they are safe, make sure they are not being manipulated. We want to give them privacy but we also want to make sure they stay away from danger.
Carve time to talk to your child everyday. Take time to listen, listen to what they say, listen to what they need...give them privacy yes, but always always be there watching from a distance...
My beautiful boy is gone. 16 years old. Sheltering at home. A drug dealer connected with him on Snapchat and gave him fentinyl laced Xanax and he overdosed in his room. They do this because it hooks people even more and is good for business, but it causes overdose and the kids don’t know what they are taking. My heart is completely shattered and I am not sure how to keep breathing.
I post this now only so that not one more kid dies. We watched him so closely. Straight A student. Getting ready for college. Experimentation gone bad. He got the drugs delivered to the house.
Please watch your kids and WATCH SNAPCHAT especially. That’s how they get them.