Honoring Our Animals

Honoring Our Animals Beth Bigler, GC-C, PGSS-C
🐾Pet Loss Grief Counselor 🐾
šŸ’”Support before & after your loss

Comment HOAGUIDE for my free anticipatory grief guide and share in the comments one of the biggest challenges about anti...
02/10/2026

Comment HOAGUIDE for my free anticipatory grief guide and share in the comments one of the biggest challenges about anticipatory grief 🧔 we hear you

When that harsh voice starts, the one that says you failed, you should have known, you hurt them, there’s one question t...
02/09/2026

When that harsh voice starts, the one that says you failed, you should have known, you hurt them, there’s one question that might stop it:

ā€œWould my beloved actually say this to me?ā€

And the answer is probably no.

Your beloved never spoke to you with cruelty. They didn’t blame you. They weren’t angry. They felt your love in every single choice you made for them.

So when you catch yourself spiraling into those thoughts, pause and ask: would my beloved talk to me this way? And if the answer is no, what would they say instead?

If you need support navigating these thoughts and your grief, I offer 1:1 sessions. Link in bio or DM me to learn more.

šŸ‘‡ What’s one thing your beloved would say to you right now?

ā˜šŸ½This, right here. ā ā šŸŒļøUnfortunately, pet loss grief is not widely acknowledged in our society as valid grief. ā ā šŸ§ŽšŸ½Ther...
02/05/2026

ā˜šŸ½This, right here. ⁠
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šŸŒļøUnfortunately, pet loss grief is not widely acknowledged in our society as valid grief. ⁠
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šŸ§ŽšŸ½There will always be people in your life that won't be able to accept the significance of your pet loss grief. Even people who you feel close to might not understand the depth of your loss. ⁠
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🚫Try to suppress the urge to defend your pet loss grief to those around you that don't understand. ⁠
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šŸ’ÆRemember that the grief you feel over losing your beloved animal is 100% valid. ⁠
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šŸ’•The connection you feel to your soul animal is organic and layered. The unconditional love, comfort, and support you share with your animal may be unmatched in any of your human to human relationships. ⁠
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ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹No wonder it is so painful to lose your beloved pet. ⁠
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šŸ«‚Surrounded yourself with fellow pet lovers and truly supportive people as you move through your grief. Pulling away from unsupportive people may be helpful to you during fresh grief. ⁠
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šŸ“Share your thoughts on this topic in the comments to keep this conversation going!

šŸ”„ Not sometimes.Not conditionally.Not only when I was easy to love.šŸ„€ They loved me through silence, shutdown, spirals.Th...
02/05/2026

šŸ”„ Not sometimes.
Not conditionally.
Not only when I was easy to love.

šŸ„€ They loved me through silence, shutdown, spirals.
They never flinched at my pain.
They didn’t try to fix me.
They stayed.
That love lives in my body.
That loss does too.

🌪 If this grief feels ā€œtoo big,ā€ you are not broken.
You are remembering what it felt like to be safe.
You are missing the one who made you feel known.

🧠 It’s okay if this hurts more than any other grief. It’s okay if you feel like no one else understands. It’s okay if your world feels upside down.

🌈 As a pet loss grief counselor, I want you to know: you’re not grieving wrong.
You’re grieving something rare and sacred.
Something real.
Something that deserves this much space.

šŸ•Š In what ways did your soulmate pet love you like no one else ever has?
You can name it here.

The love continues. The bond doesn’t break.If writing to your beloved feels right, join my free 14-day Love Letters expe...
02/04/2026

The love continues. The bond doesn’t break.

If writing to your beloved feels right, join my free 14-day Love Letters experience during the month of February.

Daily prompts, words of love, and sharing your sweetheart with a community who gets it.

Comment HOALove to sign up today!

And share your forever Valentine’s name in the comments!

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