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Investing in connection is not optional. It is foundational. Relationships are the work, in schools, leadership, and eve...
02/02/2026

Investing in connection is not optional. It is foundational. Relationships are the work, in schools, leadership, and everyday life.

Accountability and support do not compete. They work together. Real change happens in the WITH space.

When we lead with connection, repair becomes possible. Support and accountability create sustainable change.

Restorative practices remind us of something essential. How we respond matters just as much as what we address.

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Investing in connection.This week, I’m attending a 3-day Restorative Practices workshop to deepen my learning about how ...
02/02/2026

Investing in connection.

This week, I’m attending a 3-day Restorative Practices workshop to deepen my learning about how we build, repair, and sustain relationships.

Restorative practices remind us that relationships are the work.
In schools.
In leadership.
In parenting.
In teams.
In everyday life.

Whether we’re supporting students, collaborating with colleagues, leading organizations, or navigating family dynamics, restorative practices help us:
• strengthen trust
• create psychological safety
• repair harm with dignity
• move from blame to accountability
• keep people connected, even in moments of challenge

At the heart of restorative work is a simple but powerful shift:
Who was impacted, and what’s needed to move forward?

I’m grateful to continue learning tools that support presence, repair, and meaningful connection across classrooms, meeting rooms, homes, and communities.

Because sustainable change starts with how we relate to one another.




As we begin a new year, the New York State School Social Workers’ Association (NYSSSWA) Board came together to plan, col...
01/31/2026

As we begin a new year, the New York State School Social Workers’ Association (NYSSSWA) Board came together to plan, collaborate, and set priorities for supporting school social workers across New York State.

NYSSSWA is the only statewide professional organization dedicated exclusively to advancing the visibility, viability, and impact of school social work while advocating for students, families, and school communities through professional development, leadership, and systems-level advocacy.

This board meeting was a powerful reminder of what happens when committed professionals come together with a shared mission: to strengthen our profession, elevate school-based mental health, and ensure school social workers are supported, informed, and empowered in their work.

If you have not yet renewed your membership, or if you’re considering becoming a member don’t hesitate. Join NYSSSWA today and be part of a professional community that is shaping the future of school social work across New York State.

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Have you heard of an Angel Shot? I hadn't, but everyone should know about it. It’s not a drink; it’s a subtle way to ask...
01/30/2026

Have you heard of an Angel Shot? I hadn't, but everyone should know about it.

It’s not a drink; it’s a subtle way to ask for help. If you’re at a bar and feel unsafe, uneasy, or need a discreet exit, you can request an Angel Shot from the bartender. Depending on the establishment, it can signal that you need support, a safe es**rt out, or immediate assistance.

Remember: You don’t need perfect words or to justify your feelings. Your safety comes first.

Share this; someone might really benefit from knowing.

❤️

01/23/2026
A Year in Reflection As this year comes to a close, I’m noticing how much has shifted, not just in what I did but in how...
12/30/2025

A Year in Reflection

As this year comes to a close, I’m noticing how much has shifted, not just in what I did but in how I showed up.

There were moments of growth that felt exciting, moments of stretching that felt uncomfortable, and pauses that taught me more than any productivity could. I learned (again) that presence matters more than perfection, that slowing down is a skill, and that tending to my nervous system changes everything.

This year reminded me that reflection isn’t about judging where you landed; it’s about honoring how far you’ve come.

Taking a breath.
Taking stock.
Carrying forward what truly matters. 🤍

Here’s to integration, intention, and moving ahead with a little more wisdom and a lot more self-compassion.

GrowthJourney PauseAndReflect TherapistLife PresenceOverPerfection EndOfYearReflection

We spend so much of the season trying to craft the “perfect” moment; the right photo, the right gathering, the right fee...
12/10/2025

We spend so much of the season trying to craft the “perfect” moment; the right photo, the right gathering, the right feeling.
But this time of year isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence.

This image says it best:
Most holiday stress comes from trying to create a moment instead of simply being in one.

In DBT, we call this returning to Wise Mind; pausing long enough to notice the sights, sounds, and small sparks of joy already around us. You don’t have to manufacture magic. You just have to be here for it.

Wishing you a season of gentleness, grounding, and moments that unfold naturally.

Mental Health & Art at the MetThere’s something powerful about standing in front of a painting and letting yourself simp...
12/08/2025

Mental Health & Art at the Met

There’s something powerful about standing in front of a painting and letting yourself simply be.

As a social worker, moments like this feel like a reset, a quiet pause where my nervous system softens and I can reconnect with presence, beauty, and breath.

Art reminds us that:
🎨 Every story has layers
🎨 Slowing down is a regulation skill
🎨 Emotion doesn’t need justification
🎨 Stillness can be healing

In a world that pulls us in a thousand directions, spaces like The Met offer a grounding reminder:
you’re allowed to pause, observe, and refill your own cup.

Mental health is nurtured in these quiet, reflective moments, not just in therapy rooms, but in the everyday places where we allow ourselves to return to our Wise Mind.

DBT Skills to Help You Cope During the Holidays The holiday season can be beautiful and incredibly overwhelming. Family ...
11/24/2025

DBT Skills to Help You Cope During the Holidays

The holiday season can be beautiful and incredibly overwhelming. Family dynamics, grief, expectations, social pressure, financial stress, disrupted routines… it’s A LOT.

Here are some DBT-informed skills to help you move through the season with more grounding, choice, and self-compassion:

1. Wise Mind
Pause. Breathe. Check in.
When emotions run high, ask: “What does my Wise Mind know right now?”
Let that guide your next step.

2. ABC PLEASE
Prioritize sleep, movement, food, and meds: your basic care matters more than ever during busy seasons. Your nervous system needs a foundation to stay steady.

3. Radical Acceptance
You don’t have to like everything about the holidays.
Accepting reality (as it is) frees up energy and reduces suffering.

4. Boundaries with GIVE & DEAR MAN
Kindness + clarity = less chaos.
Use DEAR MAN to advocate for what you need, and GIVE to keep interactions calm and compassionate.

5. Self-Soothing with Your 5 Senses
Create tiny pockets of peace: warm tea, soft blankets, music, candles, nature. Your body will thank you.

6. Check the Facts
Holiday stories (“Everyone else is happy,” “I’m ruining everything”) aren’t facts. Ground yourself in what’s actually happening.

7. Build In Positive Moments
Schedule small joys even 5 minutes. They create emotional buffer zones during stressful days.

8. Opposite Action
When avoidance pulls you in, gently lean toward what aligns with your values. If irritation rises, try softness. If hopelessness shows up, reach out.

You’re allowed to navigate the holidays in a way that protects your mental health. You’re allowed to rest, say no, take breaks, and choose peace over pressure.

💚 Be gentle with yourself.
💚 You’re doing the best you can.
💚 And DBT skills can help you do even better.

Movember: A Call to Men and the Leaders Who Support ThemNovember marks Movember, a global movement dedicated to men’s he...
11/20/2025

Movember: A Call to Men and the Leaders Who Support Them

November marks Movember, a global movement dedicated to men’s health. And while the mustaches get the spotlight, the heart of the campaign is much deeper:
Men are still dying too young from preventable physical and mental health challenges.

Some realities we cannot ignore:
   •   1 in 8 men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer in their lifetime.
   •   Testicular cancer is the most common cancer in young men aged 15–34.
   •   Men die by su***de nearly 4x more often than women.
   •   Yet, men are significantly less likely to seek help, schedule annual checkups, or talk openly about stress, anxiety, or emotional pain.

As someone who works at the intersection of education, leadership, mental health, and DBT-informed well-being, I see this pattern often:
Men, especially male leaders, carry enormous pressure to stay strong, push through, or “handle it alone.”

But leadership doesn’t mean silent suffering.
Strength is not suppression.
And resilience is not avoidance.

The most effective leaders model vulnerability, skillfully regulate stress, and take responsibility for their own health, both physical and emotional.
When men lead with openness and proactive care, they give everyone around them permission to do the same.

This Movember, I invite men and the leaders who support them to take one step that matters:

✔️ Schedule that annual physical
✔️ Check in with a friend who seems “off”
✔️ Talk to someone about your stress
✔️ Create a workplace culture where mental health conversations are normal
✔️ Remember that asking for help is a strategy, not a weakness

Men’s health is not a personal issue; it’s a leadership priority, a family priority, and a workplace priority.

Here’s to healthier conversations, healthier decisions, and healthier men. 💙
👨🏻

🎭 How Attending an Opera Supports Your Mental HealthOpera isn’t just entertainment, it’s an emotional and sensory experi...
11/16/2025

🎭 How Attending an Opera Supports Your Mental Health

Opera isn’t just entertainment, it’s an emotional and sensory experience that can genuinely support your well-being.

When you step into a theater, you’re giving yourself permission to pause, breathe, and reset. The music, the storytelling, and the beauty of the stage offer space to:
Feel your emotions safely — a moment of healthy catharsis where you can “ride the wave” instead of suppressing what comes up.

Practice mindfulness — letting the orchestra, the voices, and the stillness anchor you into the present moment.

Find validation — opera tells universal stories of love, loss, courage, longing, and forgiveness. It reminds you that your emotions are human and shared.

Take a break from overload — stepping out of constant busyness and into intentional stillness.

Self-soothe with beauty — engaging your senses in art is a powerful DBT distress tolerance skill. Beauty regulates.

Connect with others — even without conversation, being part of a shared artistic experience creates belonging.

Tap into Wise Mind — stories help you reflect, make meaning, and reconnect with your grounded, centered self.

Sometimes mental health support looks like therapy and skills…
And sometimes it looks like sitting in a velvet seat, breathing deeply, and letting music move through you.
🧘‍♀️🙌 ❤️

AI and wellness apps are everywhere but when it comes to mental health, they’re not enough.Thank you to the American Psy...
11/14/2025

AI and wellness apps are everywhere but when it comes to mental health, they’re not enough.

Thank you to the American Psychological Association (APA) for releasing an evidence-based advisory naming the limitations, risks, and ethical concerns of AI in mental health care. This level of transparency matters.

As a clinician, consultant, and school social worker, and I fully support innovation and responsibility. Because while digital tools can support mindfulness, skills practice, and psychoeducation, they cannot replace:

-Clinical judgment
-The safety of a therapeutic relationship
-Human attunement and cultural responsiveness
-Real-time assessment of risk and complexity

AI can support mental health work but it cannot substitute the depth, nuance, and humanity of trained professionals.

I’m grateful APA is highlighting the need for clear disclosures, ethical safeguards, and ongoing evaluation to ensure AI enhances care rather than undermines it.

At the core, what works still matters most:
Human connection. Live crisis management and assessment. Clinical expertise. Thoughtful, well-regulated innovation.

Thank you, APA, for leading with clarity and care.

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