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We spend so much of the season trying to craft the “perfect” moment; the right photo, the right gathering, the right fee...
12/10/2025

We spend so much of the season trying to craft the “perfect” moment; the right photo, the right gathering, the right feeling.
But this time of year isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence.

This image says it best:
Most holiday stress comes from trying to create a moment instead of simply being in one.

In DBT, we call this returning to Wise Mind; pausing long enough to notice the sights, sounds, and small sparks of joy already around us. You don’t have to manufacture magic. You just have to be here for it.

Wishing you a season of gentleness, grounding, and moments that unfold naturally.

Mental Health & Art at the MetThere’s something powerful about standing in front of a painting and letting yourself simp...
12/08/2025

Mental Health & Art at the Met

There’s something powerful about standing in front of a painting and letting yourself simply be.

As a social worker, moments like this feel like a reset, a quiet pause where my nervous system softens and I can reconnect with presence, beauty, and breath.

Art reminds us that:
🎨 Every story has layers
🎨 Slowing down is a regulation skill
🎨 Emotion doesn’t need justification
🎨 Stillness can be healing

In a world that pulls us in a thousand directions, spaces like The Met offer a grounding reminder:
you’re allowed to pause, observe, and refill your own cup.

Mental health is nurtured in these quiet, reflective moments, not just in therapy rooms, but in the everyday places where we allow ourselves to return to our Wise Mind.

DBT Skills to Help You Cope During the Holidays The holiday season can be beautiful and incredibly overwhelming. Family ...
11/24/2025

DBT Skills to Help You Cope During the Holidays

The holiday season can be beautiful and incredibly overwhelming. Family dynamics, grief, expectations, social pressure, financial stress, disrupted routines… it’s A LOT.

Here are some DBT-informed skills to help you move through the season with more grounding, choice, and self-compassion:

1. Wise Mind
Pause. Breathe. Check in.
When emotions run high, ask: “What does my Wise Mind know right now?”
Let that guide your next step.

2. ABC PLEASE
Prioritize sleep, movement, food, and meds: your basic care matters more than ever during busy seasons. Your nervous system needs a foundation to stay steady.

3. Radical Acceptance
You don’t have to like everything about the holidays.
Accepting reality (as it is) frees up energy and reduces suffering.

4. Boundaries with GIVE & DEAR MAN
Kindness + clarity = less chaos.
Use DEAR MAN to advocate for what you need, and GIVE to keep interactions calm and compassionate.

5. Self-Soothing with Your 5 Senses
Create tiny pockets of peace: warm tea, soft blankets, music, candles, nature. Your body will thank you.

6. Check the Facts
Holiday stories (“Everyone else is happy,” “I’m ruining everything”) aren’t facts. Ground yourself in what’s actually happening.

7. Build In Positive Moments
Schedule small joys even 5 minutes. They create emotional buffer zones during stressful days.

8. Opposite Action
When avoidance pulls you in, gently lean toward what aligns with your values. If irritation rises, try softness. If hopelessness shows up, reach out.

You’re allowed to navigate the holidays in a way that protects your mental health. You’re allowed to rest, say no, take breaks, and choose peace over pressure.

💚 Be gentle with yourself.
💚 You’re doing the best you can.
💚 And DBT skills can help you do even better.

Movember: A Call to Men and the Leaders Who Support ThemNovember marks Movember, a global movement dedicated to men’s he...
11/20/2025

Movember: A Call to Men and the Leaders Who Support Them

November marks Movember, a global movement dedicated to men’s health. And while the mustaches get the spotlight, the heart of the campaign is much deeper:
Men are still dying too young from preventable physical and mental health challenges.

Some realities we cannot ignore:
   •   1 in 8 men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer in their lifetime.
   •   Testicular cancer is the most common cancer in young men aged 15–34.
   •   Men die by su***de nearly 4x more often than women.
   •   Yet, men are significantly less likely to seek help, schedule annual checkups, or talk openly about stress, anxiety, or emotional pain.

As someone who works at the intersection of education, leadership, mental health, and DBT-informed well-being, I see this pattern often:
Men, especially male leaders, carry enormous pressure to stay strong, push through, or “handle it alone.”

But leadership doesn’t mean silent suffering.
Strength is not suppression.
And resilience is not avoidance.

The most effective leaders model vulnerability, skillfully regulate stress, and take responsibility for their own health, both physical and emotional.
When men lead with openness and proactive care, they give everyone around them permission to do the same.

This Movember, I invite men and the leaders who support them to take one step that matters:

✔️ Schedule that annual physical
✔️ Check in with a friend who seems “off”
✔️ Talk to someone about your stress
✔️ Create a workplace culture where mental health conversations are normal
✔️ Remember that asking for help is a strategy, not a weakness

Men’s health is not a personal issue; it’s a leadership priority, a family priority, and a workplace priority.

Here’s to healthier conversations, healthier decisions, and healthier men. 💙
👨🏻

🎭 How Attending an Opera Supports Your Mental HealthOpera isn’t just entertainment, it’s an emotional and sensory experi...
11/16/2025

🎭 How Attending an Opera Supports Your Mental Health

Opera isn’t just entertainment, it’s an emotional and sensory experience that can genuinely support your well-being.

When you step into a theater, you’re giving yourself permission to pause, breathe, and reset. The music, the storytelling, and the beauty of the stage offer space to:
Feel your emotions safely — a moment of healthy catharsis where you can “ride the wave” instead of suppressing what comes up.

Practice mindfulness — letting the orchestra, the voices, and the stillness anchor you into the present moment.

Find validation — opera tells universal stories of love, loss, courage, longing, and forgiveness. It reminds you that your emotions are human and shared.

Take a break from overload — stepping out of constant busyness and into intentional stillness.

Self-soothe with beauty — engaging your senses in art is a powerful DBT distress tolerance skill. Beauty regulates.

Connect with others — even without conversation, being part of a shared artistic experience creates belonging.

Tap into Wise Mind — stories help you reflect, make meaning, and reconnect with your grounded, centered self.

Sometimes mental health support looks like therapy and skills…
And sometimes it looks like sitting in a velvet seat, breathing deeply, and letting music move through you.
🧘‍♀️🙌 ❤️

AI and wellness apps are everywhere but when it comes to mental health, they’re not enough.Thank you to the American Psy...
11/14/2025

AI and wellness apps are everywhere but when it comes to mental health, they’re not enough.

Thank you to the American Psychological Association (APA) for releasing an evidence-based advisory naming the limitations, risks, and ethical concerns of AI in mental health care. This level of transparency matters.

As a clinician, consultant, and school social worker, and I fully support innovation and responsibility. Because while digital tools can support mindfulness, skills practice, and psychoeducation, they cannot replace:

-Clinical judgment
-The safety of a therapeutic relationship
-Human attunement and cultural responsiveness
-Real-time assessment of risk and complexity

AI can support mental health work but it cannot substitute the depth, nuance, and humanity of trained professionals.

I’m grateful APA is highlighting the need for clear disclosures, ethical safeguards, and ongoing evaluation to ensure AI enhances care rather than undermines it.

At the core, what works still matters most:
Human connection. Live crisis management and assessment. Clinical expertise. Thoughtful, well-regulated innovation.

Thank you, APA, for leading with clarity and care.

🌍 World Kindness Day💛 A DBT-Informed ReflectionToday is a reminder that kindness isn’t just something we offer others; i...
11/13/2025

🌍 World Kindness Day
💛 A DBT-Informed Reflection

Today is a reminder that kindness isn’t just something we offer others; it’s a skill, a practice, and a choice we make moment by moment.

In DBT, kindness shows up everywhere:
-Mindfulness: pausing long enough to notice someone’s struggle or joy.
-GIVE Skills: showing Gentle, Interested, and Validating presence in our relationships.
-Radical Acceptance: choosing compassion, even when life isn’t how we want it to be.
-Walking the Middle Path: holding space for both accountability and understanding.
-Building Mastery & Opposite Action: doing kind things even on days when it feels harder.

Kindness is not weakness.
It’s not naïve.
It’s not passive.

Kindness is a wise-mind decision, an act of strength rooted in emotional intelligence, connection, and intentional leadership.

Today, let’s be a little slower to judge…
a little quicker to validate…
and a little more intentional about choosing kindness toward ourselves and others.

Because small acts of compassion create big shifts in families, schools, workplaces, and communities.

November is a time to shine a light on men’s health, both physical and mental.It’s OK to reach out. It’s OK to say you’r...
11/11/2025

November is a time to shine a light on men’s health, both physical and mental.
It’s OK to reach out. It’s OK to say you’re not okay.
Here are some hard truths and an invitation to change the story together:

🔍 By the numbers
   •   Around 1 in 10 men will experience anxiety and/or depression, yet less than half of them receive treatment.
   •   Only ~35% of men say they would seek help from a mental-health professional (versus ~58% of women).
   •   Men are 3-4 times more likely to die by su***de than women, in many Western countries.
   •   Socially imposed norms of “toughness,” self-reliance, and emotional stoicism contribute to men being far less likely to ask for help.

This month, let’s shift the narrative:
   •   If you’re a man: It’s not weak to speak up. It’s brave.
   •   If you’re a friend, partner, colleague: Ask. “How are you really doing?” Let your posture say: I’ve got you.
   •   Let’s normalize check-ups for everything: physical health, mental health, emotional check-ins.
   •   Use this November as a reminder: prevention, connection, and openness matter.

Try this today:
1. Schedule a routine physical (and add a note: ask about mental wellness too).
2. Pick one trusted person and share this line: “I’ve been feeling ___ , and I’m going to check in with someone.”
3. If you see someone withdrawing or isolating, reach out: “Want to grab coffee?” “Want to talk?” No pressure, just presence.

➡️ Because men’s health isn’t just about being “strong”, it’s about being well.
➡️ Because life is richer when we don’t face our struggles alone.
➡️ Because you matter.

Reflection: 60th NYSSWA School Social Work State Conference This week I attended and presented at the 60th Annual NYSSWA...
11/07/2025

Reflection: 60th NYSSWA School Social Work State Conference

This week I attended and presented at the 60th Annual NYSSWA Conference as a participant, presenter, and proud board member.

The conference sessions covered it all: ADHD, su***de prevention, coping skills, trauma, grief, psychopharmacology, cannabis, eating disorders, and more. Each one reminded me just how complex and how deeply meaningful our work truly is.

I was honored to present to school social workers eager to learn about DBT in a school setting. Both of my sessions were packed, a clear sign that school communities recognize the need for evidence-based practices that support both students and families.

My two presentations focused on: Applying DBT in a School Setting within MTSS Framework
& Facilitating DBT-Informed Parent Groups in Schools.

It was inspiring to see so much energy and curiosity around integrating DBT into educational systems.

A huge shout-out to Dr. Alec Miller and Drs. Jim & Liz Mazza, get ready for lots of calls from school social workers across New York State who are ready to be trained and make DBT a part of their schools! 🙌

I’m leaving this conference inspired, grateful, and re-energized by the heart, skill, and compassion of my fellow school social workers.


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Mindfulness in Nature at Hilltop Hanover Farm  I had the privilege of attending the Farm to School Educators’ Summit at ...
11/06/2025

Mindfulness in Nature at Hilltop Hanover Farm

I had the privilege of attending the Farm to School Educators’ Summit at Hilltop Hanover Farm in partnership with PNW BOCES; day centered on connection, sustainability, and mindful education.

From exploring farm-to-table learning to hands-on sustainability practices, every moment reminded me how deeply mindfulness, food systems, and community wellness are connected.

One of my favorite parts of the day was the mindfulness workshop, slowing down to notice the feel of the soil, the sound of the wind, and the scent of the earth. It was a beautiful reminder that presence begins with our senses.

I also loved learning how Hilltop Hanover grows food for local pantries and offers programs that support food access: including accepting SNAP and providing fresh produce for community members in need.

Days like this highlight how nature nourishes not only our bodies but our collective well-being; grounding us in gratitude, equity, and connection.




Halloween costume with meaning. Our department dressed up as social butterflies, engaging kids in small social interacti...
11/03/2025

Halloween costume with meaning. Our department dressed up as social butterflies, engaging kids in small social interactions all day. Teaching social skills while having fun.

Halloween Costume with Meaning. The Pink Ladies stuck together ; through heartbreaks, bad hair days, and teenage chaos.F...
11/03/2025

Halloween Costume with Meaning. The Pink Ladies stuck together ; through heartbreaks, bad hair days, and teenage chaos.

Friendship is mental health care.

When we lift each other up instead of comparing, we heal faster, love deeper, and laugh louder.

💕 Connection is the antidote.

♥️

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