12/09/2025
Holiday reindeer hair brought to you by… Ayla.
All her idea. All her joy. All I had to do was say yes.
And honestly?
This is yoga therapy too — the practice of noticing where I want to step in…
and choosing instead to step back.
Because I honestly think our kids know more than we do.
They’re closer to Source.
Closer to their own truth.
Closer to the pure, unedited version of themselves we spend adulthood trying to remember.
And the older Ayla gets, the more I realize my job isn’t to mold her or manage her or make her into someone who keeps everyone else happy.
My job is to get out of her way.
To let her voice grow louder than my fears.
To make space for her ideas, her instincts, her creativity — even when it’s scary or inconvenient or not what I would have chosen.
Because I don’t want her carrying a voice shaped by my people-pleasing, my caretaking, or my need to make everything smooth.
I want her carrying her own.
So I’m practicing letting her lead more.
Co-piloting instead of driving.
Trusting that she’s connected to something wise and wild and whole…
and that my work is to support that, not overwrite it.
Today, that leadership looked like reindeer hair.
Tomorrow, who knows?
But I’ll be right beside her — listening, learning, letting her grow.
🦌💛✨