11/30/2025
I’ve come to realize that age has nothing to do with maturity. There’s a subset of “adults” with the emotional intelligence of a child; Stuck at the age the trauma began.
But these are the most problematic of people. They seek healing without accountability and disregards respect but constantly expecting it.
I would know as I coach some of these adults. They are so unable to show up for themselves and, therefore, are unable to show up for others. Yet they expect others to accept excuses “because” of their trauma.
Let me hold your hand when I say this: it’s not the trauma holding you hostage. It’s lack of self-respect and the constant self-sabotage you embrace and refuse to fix. It’s the disrespect you weaponize in lieu of healing.
No one needs to fight for your healing or tolerate your bu****it.
There now— someone had to let you know. Hope this helps 🤎