07/19/2025
https://youtu.be/ckIrrQNf3Q4?si=peuEKjdCMoA4NvPA
Shame lurks beneath the surface of narcissistic behaviors, creating destructive patterns that devastate relationships and emotional wellbeing. In this illuminating conversation, Andreau Charles reveals the psychological mechanisms connecting vulnerability, shame, and narcissistic rage through the lens of depth psychology.
When hidden vulnerabilities are exposed, narcissistic personalities often react with disproportionate fury—not merely anger, but an existential drive to eliminate whoever revealed their disavowed parts. "It's as if to say, 'Why are you showing me this part of myself that I disavow? How dare you do this to me?'" explains Charles. This reaction stems from profound developmental wounds, leaving individuals emotionally trapped at earlier life stages despite their adult bodies.
The therapeutic journey requires extraordinary compassion paired with unflinching honesty. Charles emphasizes that beneath narcissistic defenses lies not an adult but "a child that's wounded, scared, fragmented" seeking healing and integration. Through dream analysis—which bypasses ego defenses to reveal unfiltered truth—therapists can access deeper insights and potential solutions hidden within the unconscious mind.
For those grappling with these patterns or supporting someone who exhibits them, understanding the developmental origins creates pathways toward healing. The conversation explores both the challenges and rewards of depth psychological approaches, which offer transformative benefits: truth without judgment, appropriate emotional holding, and models for authentic relationships that extend beyond the therapy room into everyday life.
You can connect with Andreau Charles at Areale Counseling & Wellness by calling 917-905-4463 or emailing info@arealecounselingandwellness.com to explore whether his approach might support your journey toward wholeness and more fulfilling relationships.
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