03/28/2026
It is with great sorrow that we announce the passing of Matthew Paul Trivelli on March 28, 2026, at the age of 90. Surrounded by the love of his family and strengthened by his faith, Matthew passed away peacefully.
Matthew will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by his devoted wife of 70 years, Dorine Trivelli (née Pellegrini), and his children, Janet (Brian) Spisto, Wayne (Kathy) Trivelli, Karen (Rich DeStasio) Trivelli, and Laura (David) Strawhorn.
He was a proud and loving grandfather to Megan (Chuck Dunn) Trivelli, Justin Spisto, Trevor Spisto, Luke (MacKenzie) Trivelli, and Jack Strawhorn. Nothing brought him more joy than spending time with his family and watching them grow.
Matthew was predeceased by his sister, Lena “Mickey” O’Donnell (2014), and his brother, Benjamin Trivelli (2005).
A lifelong Staten Islander, Matthew was born on September 21, 1935. He graduated from New Dorp High School and Pace College (now Pace University). He built a successful career as an East Coast Sales Manager and Controller at Macmillan Publishing and later continued his financial career with Formica Construction.
Matthew was an avid runner and tennis player who enjoyed staying active throughout his life.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation (https://t2t.org/).
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, March 31, 2026, from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Matthew Funeral Home, 2508 Victory Boulevard, Staten Island, NY 10314. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, April 1, 2026, at 9:30 AM at St. Teresa RC Church, Staten Island. Interment will follow at St. Peter’s Cemetery.
He will be forever in our hearts.
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