Alisa Hafkin, LCSW

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Alisa Hafkin, LCSW

Dedicated to helping clients sort through life's issues with sympathetic and motivational support. My specialty include helping individuals and couples.

Working through life's transitions can lead us down paths of uncertainty. We may experience anxiety and sit with depression when stuck with difficult decisions or uncomfortable circumstances. I started my therapy practice to help you through these times. With significant experience as a doula I also deeply understand the emotions and changes that occur during pre and post partum times and counsel individuals and couples with infertility, baby blues, depression and family adjustment.

12/23/2025

One of the most powerful changes you can experience in life is learning to treat yourself with compassion. Self-compassion is important because it helps us respond to our own struggles with kindness and understanding, which reduces stress, boosts resilience, and improves both mental and emotional health. Learning to treat yourself with compassion can take time and guidance, often with the support of a therapist, but as you practice it, life begins to feel easier, calmer, and more fulfilling.

It's no secret that suffering and difficult times are part of life. And it's never too late for a transformational shift. Self-compassion can help.

12/17/2025

Having meaningful friendships can greatly improve your mental and physical health by helping you feel supported, less stressed, and more confident. Meeting new people as an adult can feel challenging, but taking small steps such as joining a class, volunteering, or attending a club can help you connect with like-minded people. If anxiety or fear makes reaching out difficult, I can work with you to develop strategies and provide guidance so you can build meaningful and lasting connections.

Friendships boost both your physical and mental health. Learn how they help and discover ways to make new friends.

12/11/2025

The journey through infertility can feel overwhelming, with hope and disappointment coming in waves, and the stress sometimes feeling as intense as a major life crisis. While difficult, it’s completely normal to feel grief, anxiety, or isolation. Seeking support from a therapist, support group, or trusted loved one can lighten the emotional load. Taking care of your emotional well-being alongside infertility treatments can help you stay resilient, navigate setbacks, and hold onto hope throughout the process.

Navigating the Emotional Highs and Lows of Fertility Journeys

12/05/2025

Generational trauma is the passing of emotional wounds from one generation to the next, often shaping behaviors and patterns without people realizing why. It can show up as repeated cycles, anxiety, relationship struggles, or intense emotional reactions that seem to run in the family. These wounds are difficult to heal on your own, which is why therapy is important, but it is never too late to begin healing and breaking generational cycles.

Generational trauma refers to psychological wounds that are passed down through family lines, often unconsciously.

11/24/2025

Parenthood is amazing, but it can really take a toll on romance since so much energy goes to the kids and daily life. Couples can start feeling more like roommates than partners, and that distance can be frustrating. Therapy can help you reconnect, communicate better, and find ways to bring intimacy and fun back into your relationship.

Commitment remains steady. The rest does not.

11/20/2025

Everyone makes mistakes, but dwelling on them can keep you stuck in regret, while learning from them can help you grow. Recognize your feelings, forgive yourself, and focus on what you can do differently in the future instead of getting lost in “what ifs.” Treat yourself kindly and do things that lift your mood so you can move on and find peace.

Feeling stuck in regret? Discover how self-compassion and intentional steps can help you find hope, healing, and lasting peace.

11/11/2025

Now that daylight savings time has ended for the year, you may notice your routine and sleep feel off, which can leave you tired and moody. The lack of sunlight during the day can also make some people feel more down or low-energy. It’s pretty normal to feel a shift in your mood, but getting outside for light, sticking to a routine, and taking care of your sleep can help you adjust.

Abandoning the twice-per-year switch to and from daylight saving time could greatly reduce strokes and obesity cases, a new study finds.

11/05/2025

The food we eat can shape the way we feel and think. Good nutrition supports clearer thinking, steadier moods, and better mental health. When we nourish our bodies with wholesome meals, our minds tend to feel calmer and more focused. Over time, small changes in what we eat can bring real relief and help us feel more balanced inside and out.

Nutrition fuels our brains as well as our bodies so we should choose brain-healthy food in order to keep our brains in optimal working order.

10/29/2025

Dealing with depression can feel really heavy, but there are things you can do to make it more manageable. Activities like walking, exploring a new hobby, and spending time with supportive people can help improve your mood. Speaking with a therapist can also provide valuable guidance and support as you work through difficult emotions.
https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/how-to-fight-depression -vs-tomorrow

Small steps, like taking out the trash, may help you feel more in control. Here’s how to incorporate them in a way that works for you.

10/20/2025

Male infertility isn’t often discussed, but it can have a significant impact on a man's mental and emotional well-being. Many men have been taught to stay strong and keep their feelings to themselves, which can make reaching out for support feel difficult. Working with a therapist during this challenging time can help you process your emotions and navigate infertility in a healthier way.

20-30% of all infertility in couples can be attributed to male infertility, and men contribute to infertility in about half of all cases.

10/16/2025

It’s easy to feel drained when you’re always looking after someone else, which is why caregiver burnout is quite common. If you don’t take care of yourself, it can weigh on your health and mood pretty heavily. Make sure you take breaks, ask for help when you need it, and do little things that recharge you.

Caregiving is rewarding and also can be overwhelming. Learn from Lyra how to spot burnout and reclaim your well-being.

10/08/2025

Sleep is essential for supporting good mental health, yet struggling with mental health can make it hard to get a restful night’s sleep. This cycle can take a serious toll on your well-being. Fortunately, there are steps you can take to reclaim your sleep. I’ve outlined some of those activities in my blog.

Trying to fall asleep when your mind is racing can be very difficult. When you are dealing with problems in your life and you finally lie down in bed, your mind may drift towards those things that are causing you … Continue reading →

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