04/20/2026
You get to decide: do you want people to hold your baby?
Friends and family 👩👩👧👧who want to help you with your newborn 🤱🏻can offer help, but you can choose to accept it...or offer another, more helpful suggestion💡.
Do you want them to wash the dishes🍽️ or hold the baby while you wash them...or take a nap🛌🏻? (Being a parent is exhausting!) It's your choice.
Your visitors can "hold" you while you hold/feed your baby by supporting your needs: meals🥗, water refills🍶, a clean home🧹, and a nap🛌.
Have you redirected unhelpful "support" from family & friends?
❓Need a prenatal breastfeeding class for more info, or breastfeeding support after your baby is born?📱Schedule a lactation consultation or class in lower Westchester, the Bronx, or Five Towns (LI), NY with Tova Ovits, BA, IBCLC at 718-974-1647 or tova@firstlatch.com, or an office visit in Bergen County, NJ with Jennifer Leopold, LCSW, PMH-C, IBCLC at 917-750-9708 or Jennifer@FirstLatch.com.
**gefit